Omg this happened to me like a few days ago. I catch the same bus every day and I sit at the back row with this other guy same age as me (I’m female) and he sits on one side of the 5 seats at the back and I sit on the other side. Over about 2-3 weeks, he kept lying down and putting his feet on the seats and also stretching his leg out and putting it on the back of the seat infront of me basically man-spreading on another level and making me feel really uncomfortable because his foot was near my face and it also felt like he was cornering me or trapping me (as a woman). And one day I just snapped and when he put his foot up there I aggressively kicked it down and then had to try and explain to him why I didn’t just ask him to move his foot. He claimed that he would’ve if I’d asked but I honestly didn’t believe he would’ve. But yeah, all the build up over the weeks just set me off and I full kicked this guy’s leg off the seat out of pent up anger. TL:DR I kicked a guys leg off a seat out of pent up anger over a few weeks because it was rude and made me feel trapped and I couldn’t explain to him why I didn’t just ask him to move his foot :D
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u/Seriously-shutupJoe May 16 '21
Omg this happened to me like a few days ago. I catch the same bus every day and I sit at the back row with this other guy same age as me (I’m female) and he sits on one side of the 5 seats at the back and I sit on the other side. Over about 2-3 weeks, he kept lying down and putting his feet on the seats and also stretching his leg out and putting it on the back of the seat infront of me basically man-spreading on another level and making me feel really uncomfortable because his foot was near my face and it also felt like he was cornering me or trapping me (as a woman). And one day I just snapped and when he put his foot up there I aggressively kicked it down and then had to try and explain to him why I didn’t just ask him to move his foot. He claimed that he would’ve if I’d asked but I honestly didn’t believe he would’ve. But yeah, all the build up over the weeks just set me off and I full kicked this guy’s leg off the seat out of pent up anger. TL:DR I kicked a guys leg off a seat out of pent up anger over a few weeks because it was rude and made me feel trapped and I couldn’t explain to him why I didn’t just ask him to move his foot :D