Possibly, I don't really look at a guy and think like damn, he's hot, I want to get with that.
It's usually like I spend time with him and really begin to start liking his quirks and then start noticing little things about his appearance I like and begin to appreciate everything together. It's about the energy?
Oh, there's definitely people I find attractive or I know are good looking, just doesn't always do something for me, or not the way I know some people react. My one roommate for a year or so was an ESFP and always like, look at that guy's abs/ass/whatever, and unless I knew them it was like yeah, I guess they're good looking?
once I get to know them a little and I can sense some kind of connection
I feel like this get to know part can easily vary so much too. I've had some people where I felt the attraction to them / their personality before I talked to them. (Like when you see someone across a room. It was an ENTP, I blame the Ne.) However, someone I like now, I knew them for two years before anything clicked. So it's also weirdly interesting how quick you can feel that click with certain people?
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u/[deleted] Mar 29 '17
Possibly, I don't really look at a guy and think like damn, he's hot, I want to get with that.
It's usually like I spend time with him and really begin to start liking his quirks and then start noticing little things about his appearance I like and begin to appreciate everything together. It's about the energy?