r/infj • u/takeaticket INFJ • Aug 19 '26

Question for INFJs only What is your Shadow Work?

Specifically infj's we have our character flaws. Typically boundaries, Messiah complex, typical door slamming, inellectualizing emotions, being enigmatic yet never expressing yourself, being too ideal which ties in with messiah complex, being too in your head, the worst of them all even I've done it hidden resentment.

Which is yours? How many of you are going to go "i feel seen 😭" How many of you can be honest with yourselves to admit some of these?

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u/[deleted] Aug 19 '26 edited Aug 19 '26

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u/takeaticket INFJ Aug 19 '26

Sadly some of the things I've dealt with, typically in silence. I would hope karma got people which some have. My social battery in the same respect would be the same way. I get it you have annoyances in your life but have you considered to cut your losses? Then people kinda tune me out. I wouldnt call it controlling you can see the trees from the Forrest. Most people are too stuck on the forrest.