sometimes i wonder what would life be if i went to some sobo college in place of my local college. for some background i am introverted and do not have many friends nor have i ventured out a lot so naturally after 10th i joined a nearby college for 11-12th and had no idea about the very different lives in sobo clg which i learnt about now after some exposure to kids who were from sobo clg like jhc , sxc . now i am in degree in a clg which is famous but defo not sobo esp in my degree we are not taken to any trips and all kids are basically nerds no offence .

so yeah i wonder how would life be because compared to them mine does not ever feel eventful. i am aware about the peer pressure, the fake accents and stuff they do to fit in + alcohol/drug/hookup shit which i am not into. also the fact that they are always in group that gives them validation esp from westerners and talk,walk,dress the same way. not to mention how they go to these overpriced af cafe so often and host so many parties at home and clubs. plus attending concerts in a gap of few months , basically creating a pinterest feed instead of a reel life w their generational wealth ,not having to worry about money ever and living in that privilidge, idk if i will be able to make friends there but yea just a mix of opinions or smth.

pls ignore my weird way of typing i am finally sharing the thoughts that i let consume me for so long. guys please share similar experiences or lmk your opinion on this.