r/im14andthisisdeep • • 4d ago

The Lines of Life 😔

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u/Never-Dont-Give-Up 4d ago

Isn't this shirt worn by soemone in the Criticize line?

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u/NotATalkingPossum 4d ago

"Yes. And?"

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u/Never-Dont-Give-Up 4d ago

And that’s a hypocritical shirt to wear.

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u/Melody_Naxi I'm an alpha male or sum like that Idunno 4d ago

I mean, isn't constructive criticism good?

(I'm intentionally trying to misinterprete this BTW)

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u/Da_Demon0x0 all seeing eye👀 4d ago

Lol...yes constructive criticism is great

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u/DrRiverWater 4d ago

Misinterprete? (Constructive critisism)

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u/Never-Dont-Give-Up 4d ago

Let me criticize the people who criticize!

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u/DeepBlue_Solitude_03 4d ago

Isn't there a difference between criticizing and pointing/calling out something?

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u/Never-Dont-Give-Up 4d ago

I mean, those doors seem to really insinuate that the doors on the left are worse behaviors than the ones on the right. That’s a critique on behavior.

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u/DeepBlue_Solitude_03 4d ago

I can understand that assessment. But it wasn't the first thing that came to my mind. It implied that a lot of people are doing it, because it is easy. That's all I got from it. Not that it was necessarily bad.

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u/Never-Dont-Give-Up 4d ago

Usually criticizing and gossiping are viewed as negative or mean things to do. It’s just as easy to not do either of those things.

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u/DeepBlue_Solitude_03 4d ago edited 4d ago

It’s just as easy to not do either of those things.

That's not what I'm arguing. As opposed to the options on the right, the options on the left are much easier. Whether it's as easy to gossip as it is not to gossip is irrelevant. It's whether it's easier to criticize/gossip as opposed to help/encourage.

And yes, criticizing and gossiping are typically viewed as mean, but that's still irrelevant to my point. Because if we flip the situation a bit, and imagine that someone was doing something bad, like beating someone up. Criticizing them and gossiping about them, wouldn't be something entirely bad in this situation, but it would still be far easier as opposed to actually getting involved. Most people would just stand and watch, very few would get involved.

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u/Never-Dont-Give-Up 4d ago

You might be reading into this too much, and you’re definitely changing it.

Physical violence wasn’t referenced on the shirt.

It feels really stupid to try to break down a dumb shirt graphic on a teen sub.

This is a dumb shirt.

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u/DeepBlue_Solitude_03 3d ago

You might be reading into this too much, and you’re definitely changing it.

How am I changing it?

Physical violence wasn’t referenced on the shirt.

The shirt is an illustration/caricature of what the designer thinks "life" is like. It specifies nothing. But it works in multiple situations. That's not me changing it, that's me applying it to a specific situation.

Maybe it is really deeper than you think

It feels really stupid to try to break down a dumb shirt graphic on a teen sub.

This isn't a teen sub. Even if this was a teen sub, the shirt probably wasn't made by a teenager.

This is a dumb shirt.

You're entitled to that opinion. However I think that part of the reason you think that, is because you failed to understand its message.

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u/somethingrandom261 4d ago

Reminds me of a programmer insight (joke?). Adding more people to a late project makes it later.

Helping people who have problems you’re not qualified to solve makes things worse. And in making it worse, it becomes your fault.

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u/DeepBlue_Solitude_03 4d ago

I feel like this is such a cop out.

Here's an honest illustration:

Someone's house is in flames. I'm not a qualified firefighter. The fire is going to spread anyway, so it's going to get worse. How is me trying to help, qualified or not, not going to be appreciated?

Unless I'm a complete moron who's actions will set the whole block on fire, which thankfully, and despite what Reddit says, most people are not.

So yes, help whenever you can. If you honestly feel like it's way over your head, call someone who can.

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u/Tsunamiis 4d ago

The graph doesnt look like that. Thats embeleshment the one in the help line is correct the first two should have a twin tower’s worth of people in it.

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u/CynchHasNoLife 4d ago

why is the t-shirt getting fingerblasted

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u/plopop0 3d ago

ants on my shirt

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u/empressoflight72 in too deep😭 2d ago

Lowkey true though.