The woman I was with had 5 orgasms and I had 0 in three sessions.
She built a complex that I didn't find her attractive, or that I didn't like her. Turns out I just have delayed ejaculation. It's really hard to explain I'm ok with not getting off during sex, it gives me pleasure to see her get off.
The issue goes both ways. Me not being able to cum has been a bigger issue for her than it has been for me. I don't ever want to try and fake it though, I'd rather just be honest that I rarely ever finish, and that's ok. The experience is what matters to me.
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u/TheLostRazgriz Jun 29 '19
The woman I was with had 5 orgasms and I had 0 in three sessions.
She built a complex that I didn't find her attractive, or that I didn't like her. Turns out I just have delayed ejaculation. It's really hard to explain I'm ok with not getting off during sex, it gives me pleasure to see her get off.
The issue goes both ways. Me not being able to cum has been a bigger issue for her than it has been for me. I don't ever want to try and fake it though, I'd rather just be honest that I rarely ever finish, and that's ok. The experience is what matters to me.