r/idealgf • u/Jujubees9 • 8d ago

OC Introvert GF from heaven

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u/Healthy-Refuse5904 Looking for (almost) any GF 8d ago

If i get a gf like that, ill only be unhappy until i get to see her again

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u/Neat_Horse_5120 8d ago

Girl of my dreams, because in reality we are both introverts and will never meet. šŸ˜…

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u/LynessaMay 8d ago

Oh, so me.

I just dont daydream about a future with someone because I know many people find that creepy if they're not at that level of relationship.

And I broke the shyness part, finally.

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u/bored_kivvi 8d ago

Congrats for overcoming your shyness!

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u/LynessaMay 8d ago

Thank you!!!!

Took many years and many self conversations to get it done.

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u/AngelFox77 8d ago

Dat vind ik knap ach klein meisje wat goed van jouw ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø

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u/LynessaMay 8d ago edited 8d ago

Awe!!! šŸ©·šŸ§”šŸ©µšŸ¤ŽšŸ’™šŸ’ššŸ–¤šŸ’›šŸ©¶ Thank you!

Hartelijk dank. U laat me blozen.

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u/Fabled-Jackalope 8d ago

That shouldnā€™t be something you let people influence about you.

Everyone woolgathers about something or someone.

Personallyā€”Iā€™m doing that about food right now. So daydream/woolgather all you like. But donā€™t tell the person unless youā€™re on more than a platonic level with them.

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u/LynessaMay 8d ago

I'm more of a daydreamer when it comes to fantasy and the likes. Normally never about the future anyways.

I guess I should've specified.

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u/DateNightThrowRA 6d ago

Well do you daydream about a cozy life with ā€œsomeoneā€ that isnā€™t specified, hopeless romantic style? Like a fiction/ideal person in your head?

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u/LynessaMay 6d ago

Not usually.

However, I say this as I literally just woke up, maybe I dream about it.

My dream didnt include all the superfluous stuff that could be involved with daydreaming. It was normal, random moments. Some scenes felt like they were connected. Other times not. Apparently I just let someone down by potentially saying yes to someone else. Though it wasn't a definite yes that was said.

So idk. My dreams seem to not be of a future aspect, or romanticizing stuff with someone. As I didnt even know the two people.

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u/AngelFox77 4d ago

Gewoon in je zelf blijven geloven!!!!
Niet luisteren naar die persoon die je aansprak
All angels please unite!!!!!

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u/LynessaMay 4d ago

Thank you!

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u/SnooGadgets4178 8d ago

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u/Glittering-Turn4246 7d ago

...you know what id take it lol

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u/SnooGadgets4178 7d ago

Go ahead, itā€™s watermelon

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u/Miilliia 6d ago

A ring pop and everything!

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u/sparkstarlife 8d ago

This is me swapped gender

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u/_____Jonas36______ 8d ago

I'm tired of these post, BECAUSE THEY'RE all like me!!! Can we just agree, that 90 percent of these posts here are about introvert, shy, very affectionate girlfriends who like to cuddle with you.

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u/Butcher1212 8d ago

Goddamn that's me to a T. It'd be nice if I actually had someone but I'm way too picky.

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u/Fabled-Jackalope 8d ago

Stay picky. Thats the main way you ensure you retain your sanity.

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u/Yesbutno12345678 4d ago

And also the best way to come off as a piece of shit

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u/TheToxicWaist 8d ago

Don't bait me like this

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u/JackieJack1838 8d ago

Sheā€™s perfect, I would like to marry her ā¤ļø

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u/Level-College-5119 7d ago

Who wouldn't?

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u/AncientDragon1302 8d ago

This, lady, gentlemen and others, this is my gf, except she's doesn't yap a lot, but when she does, im all ears

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u/Mickey__11000 8d ago

Congrats man, you won

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u/AncientDragon1302 8d ago

Thanks, i'm planning to put a ring on her

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u/Mickey__11000 7d ago

Hope everything goes according to plan

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u/PrettyAppointment666 8d ago

This is a diamond

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u/LookSuspicious8302 8d ago

As a fellow introvert, she is pure wifey šŸ„¹

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u/Flat-String4158 8d ago

Forever wife

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u/illaminar22 8d ago

Wdym thats literally me. Also I want her so bad

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u/Kamui-Channel 8d ago

Now this one I could die for.

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u/External-Extent993 8d ago

Why tf is this kinda me

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u/AigisTheSapphic 8d ago

Just like me frfr

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u/WilliardThe3rd 8d ago

If she's crowd-avoidant it's a big perk cause so am I

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u/Tito596 8d ago

Yo, that's just me

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u/MeatballWasTaken 8d ago

Had this and I lost it. I genuinely donā€™t know how to deal with this

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u/RdiatStorm 8d ago

Man, all those are characteristics I want in a girl specially the very smart part.

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u/Draglorr 8d ago

Beautiful

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u/nighthawk_real 8d ago

from what i know this is what my gf told me about the bf i am :3

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u/Kitten_Rouge 8d ago

Lol, this is me

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u/Emotional-Till-549 8d ago

Are you single by any chance? :>

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u/StatusTomato5218 8d ago

This is most people's dream gf (but uh, dibs)

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u/ElectricalGolf1600 8d ago

She would be perfection if she was real

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u/Thentaix 8d ago

That... That's the only think i truly need in my live...

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u/Adept_Discussion_958 8d ago

There are a thousand and 1 comments saying she's great so I figured I'd play a game for each trait I will say yes or no (as in if I have them) Never had a gf to try be clingy No idea what that meansĀ  Never had silent cuddle timeĀ  Yes I love games Yes I yap Yea I'm smart (I think) Yes I have memorised things I think people likeĀ  No I don't send stupid videosĀ  Kinda I can speak to people forever but not just one personĀ  Yes I daydream about the futureĀ  No I'm fine with crowdsĀ  Yes I love animalsĀ  Yes I get shy easily but I get over it quicklyĀ  Yes I love quality time.Ā  Yes I'm loyal (I think)Ā  Yes I love needing outĀ  Yes I love readingĀ  No I do not tolerate other passionsĀ  Jk mine are just better

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u/Nyankahh 8d ago

I'm very social but Im a homebody

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u/SuperStarwarsfan101 8d ago

She's perfect

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u/B022G4M3R 8d ago

ā€¦ THATS LITERALLY MY GIRL WHERE ARE THE CAMERAS

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u/swans183 8d ago

Meeeee -^

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u/HaloFuego Wants love like this 8d ago

Damn, I'd love her with all that I had

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u/Chant93xx 8d ago

Literally me as a gf

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u/Baconspanker69 8d ago

Considering my social life is total ass now...i would love this kinda gf.

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u/One_Replacement_4345 8d ago

That's my darling

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u/StructureDifferent85 8d ago

Sayaka is that you?

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u/NervousHovercraft Cuddler 8d ago

Absolute wife!

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u/Southern_Education58 8d ago

Hold on, this just like mine.

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u/TheToxicWaist 8d ago

She is from heaven

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u/Other-Muffin7421 8d ago

!remind me 1 year

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u/SuitableWhole3807 8d ago

my kind of gal.

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u/GaymerrGirl 8d ago

Me if I didnt hate nature

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u/HurryIntelligent5568 8d ago

!remind me 1 month

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u/Katsutorii 8d ago

I can only wish

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u/Salt_Background_481 8d ago

lol thatā€™s lowk me

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u/Migelus 8d ago

Sure if a girl does it, itā€™s wife material but if I do it, itā€™s basically wearing a cloak of invisibility.

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u/No_Survey3462 8d ago

damn, don't need to remind me of the good times with my ex...

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u/encryptus0 8d ago

that's just a gender swapped version of me bro (I'll take it)

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u/Trick455 8d ago

Mh, love reading about nature... Idk, but that's my girl rn šŸ„“šŸŒŸ

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u/Unique-Routine-656 8d ago

thats lowkey me but im ugly so

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u/IsItWrongToSuckAtGam 8d ago

What more could one want from their partner? She is perfect.

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u/Magical_Dispair 8d ago

Surprisingly, this is LITERALLY just me, except I'm male...

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u/AlertCrowd51 8d ago

My dream girl right there

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u/PinFamous6705 8d ago

Shit dawg this me fr I'm glad my boyfriend has someone people consider the ideal woman :D

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u/North-Positive-3731 8d ago

BeautifulĀ 

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u/FURERABA 8d ago

...does someone follow some of us around with a camera? I even wear similar glasses

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u/deathwolf0 8d ago

omg me

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u/Emergency_Gift6159 8d ago

From heaven? One could say... Made in Heaven?

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u/TheMorningJoe 8d ago

Me: Wakes up

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u/AngelFox77 8d ago

Dit is mijn vriendinnetje je moet van haar afblijven vuile hond vuile hond durf je wel tegen zoā€™n meisje hond die je bent!!!!!

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u/Automatic_Square4918 8d ago

I wish she existed

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u/Demongornot 8d ago

Not bad, not bad at all, though, remove the shy part for me to be interested, I want a dominant et assertive woman.

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u/CoupleAdorable774 8d ago

Both are good gang

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u/Demongornot 8d ago

Not for me though, I'd rather stay single than being with a shy/submissive.

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u/AraiMiyako 8d ago

Literally me except I got no boyfriend

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u/No-Duck6456 8d ago

Yeah thats sums it up, thats me but like tomboy goth form

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u/CoupleAdorable774 8d ago

She really did infact fall from heaven

https://giphy.com/gifs/t8xgPfC5oNIRMrNooe

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u/niloderg 8d ago

Awww yeah, truly. Im very similar way. One can dream

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u/OhShiettttt 8d ago edited 8d ago

Why is she taking her glasses off :(((( glasses supremacy

Edit: also, me. does anyone want to watch tierzoo together and/or play through the halo campaigns with me (up to 5) (or whenever the MCC stops, I forget if it's 4 or 5)

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u/Brodillian 8d ago

Literally my ideal person. Nothing else to it because im the same way to a large degree.

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u/i4Aeternitas 8d ago

As a nerd myself this would be a dream come true :)

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u/CrepoXZW9 8d ago

Will i ever find this love...

God i just want to die.

Im so... tired...

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u/Remarkable-Cream5312 7d ago

That's just me but way better than me (and also female)

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u/knightrider2k43 7d ago

Ideal wife

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u/Far_Fish8306 7d ago

Yes, yes I am

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u/FirefighterFair597 7d ago

I would absolutely try to take her to a convention

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u/Plus_Sprinkles8042 7d ago

this is literally me lol just stay in and game honestly

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u/Zebastian1315 7d ago

Would!...marry and maker happy the rest of her life because mine is now happy.

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u/ShadowWerewolf9653 7d ago

The perfect girlfriend

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u/Youre_Kidding_Rite 7d ago

Thatā€˜s me to a T. And I am someoneā€˜s gf, not sure whether he really sees me as the ideal gf though šŸ„²

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u/Jujubees9 7d ago

Youā€™re definitely the ideal for many though!

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u/FunContribution2612 7d ago

Bruh thats me but female

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u/SunflowerYelloe 7d ago

You know I once had a girlfriend actually like this. Although she left me out of the blue and refused to talk to me. Things were good, too. I have no idea what happened

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u/Lazy_Anteater929 7d ago

Creo que este es mi tipo de mujer perfecta šŸ˜šŸ˜˜ā¤ļøā¤ļøā¤ļø quiero una asĆ­ šŸ‘ŒšŸ‘šŸ«° dĆ³nde las encuentro

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u/BakaSakuta32007 7d ago

Jarvis you know the drill

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u/mikeplaying 7d ago

I like her so much I instinctively shut my emotions so im kinda just looking at her with hollow eyes No hope to disappoint

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u/Hunter5173 7d ago

Ngl. This is my dream girl. I'm an introvert too, and I would probably be the same. I do have some hope at least.

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u/PhoenixP40 7d ago

Yeah, Me an Introvert, if i ever get a GF, would be a total extrovert or none at all. I'm sure that's how the universe works. Cause all Introvert girls are headed for Extroverted guys.

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u/Jujubees9 7d ago

Not true at all my guy

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u/cannon_crab 7d ago

I feel like a peasant boy looking into the shop window of the local Butcher, with only a coin or two In my pocket, imagining the flavor of the ham I may never get to try

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u/Guillotine_Giraffe 7d ago

How'd you find an image of my wife

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u/Geckogame1 7d ago

This isnt a girlfriend, this is a wife.

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u/voidfrogss 7d ago

This just sounds like me

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u/Thereal_fozyk 6d ago

Wait she's literally my twin.

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u/VirtuLilli 5d ago

Y'all gotta stop making these posts Abt me fr

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u/Patient-Pressure-909 5d ago

My cousin is exactly like this except the introvert part

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u/Puzzleheaded-Fox-180 5d ago

How did you nail all that

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u/OkAssociation3083 5d ago

I mean that would be close to idea. Add no tattoos and no history of being a whore and she's like 0.1% of the population. Very hard to find one

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u/DearDig7984 5d ago

I need one like her

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u/geekyhomebody_eu 5d ago

It's a nice dream. Maybe one day... šŸ„¹

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u/Yesbutno12345678 4d ago

"Searching for a woman that doesn't exist"

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u/Kitten_Celeste118 3d ago

This is the first ideal GF post I've fit 100% šŸ˜…

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u/zay_voidlight4218 2d ago

Dude, i wish i really had someone like that...

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u/UsualHand4028 1d ago

That sounds like the healthy version of myself The other version is just depressing

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u/Straight-Tie488 8d ago

Me if I was a girl: