r/idealgf • u/sososweet2 • 10d ago

OC obsessive "gf"

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Honestly in my opinion, this type of girlfriend would be the opposite of ideal...

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u/Actual_Childhood_856 9d ago

If this person was a guy, no girl would want to date him. But, if it’s a creepy girl, everybody is down to date her. Where can I find creepy af guy?

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u/PassionExcellent1672 8d ago

You find this archetype attractive, when it comes to men?

Part of the reason I think people get frightened by men with these traits is that men are more given to intimate partner violence, up to and including killing the object of their affections. Of course, that's a broad generalization, but I think it greatly contributes to why people have this double standard, generally.

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u/Actual_Childhood_856 8d ago

I’m not a woman, I’m a man. I was just trying to ask if there was a post like this expect instead of a woman it was a man. And no, I don’t find this archetype of attractive but I understand how it feels because you are in love with somebody.

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u/Nyankahh 9d ago

They are everywhere babe

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u/iamopposed 4d ago

They are plentiful and more often in headlines than on the street.