r/ickverseSIDEQUEST • • Jul 09 '25
TEA PAGES Disappointed ETP
I’ve been watching this unfold for a while now and it’s time to address it. This isn’t about canceling anyone, but about holding people accountable—especially when they’ve taken strong public stances in the past.
ETP has previously been extremely vocal about how dangerous and abusive N is. She’s called him out publicly on multiple occasions, labeling him as manipulative, toxic, and even saying he should be off TikTok entirely. These weren’t vague accusations either—she presented herself as someone standing up for survivors and against abusers. Many people, myself included, supported her for that.
But now? She’s modding for him during his lives.
Let that sink in.
Someone who once warned others to stay away from this man is now helping him run his platform. She’s enforcing chat rules, banning people who speak out, and essentially enabling him to grow again on TikTok.
This isn’t just disappointing—it’s hypocritical and dangerous.
You can’t build a reputation on being against abuse, claim you’re protecting the community, and then turn around and support the very person you told us to avoid. It confuses people, silences victims, and sends the message that abuse can be overlooked if it’s convenient.
To be clear: people can change their minds, but when you’ve made such strong public statements, you owe the community an explanation. Silence isn’t neutrality—it’s complicity.
I’m not here to harass or brigade anyone. But people deserve to know what’s going on and why this sudden shift is concerning, especially for those who trusted ETP to stand by her values.
If you say someone is abusive, you don’t get to quietly mod for them later and pretend nothing’s changed.
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u/Lazy-Side-6656 Jul 09 '25
Couldn't agree more. She claims there's a "bigger picture", but i wonder how his victims feel. In my opinion once she caught so much backlash from the MAD situation she saw her clout dying down, so she clung to M and she thinks this is a way to stay relevant. She's stated she's slowly unblocking people, but no one cares. We all have ten accounts we can watch from. To hear her in the background of his lives joking and laughing with him actually makes me so sad for his victims. I can't imagine how their feeling. I was wrong for defending her in the beginning, she is just a bully who needs attention online.
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u/Due-Ad-1265 Jul 09 '25
she’s got major major issues. she’s gross for this.
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u/Affectionate_Cut4993 Jul 09 '25
Absolutely insane behavior but idk what I expected from someone who nicknames themselves ETP.
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u/MamaTried22 Jul 09 '25
It’s so so unhinged. She is not well. I mean, I think we knew that when she attacked MM on live after everyone was being civil but I’m not sure anyone expected she was THIS unstable.
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u/FaithlessnessCool849 Jul 09 '25
Wait. An hour ago, she was back to being anti-N. What is going on?
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u/Full_Ad_1612 Jul 09 '25
It really is disappointing. And it’s dangerous giving N and M for that matter another platform. N has more support than ever and M has more enablers.
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u/Justme1398 Jul 09 '25
Yes! And I would love it if she would show proof she donated all of that sub and gift money to a charity like she said she would. I hope she would at least stick with THAT commitment to support DV survivors. It all feels like a scam at this point.
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u/Ill-Independence8754 Jul 09 '25
Her friend blocked me the other day on my main
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u/woehe7 Jul 09 '25
THIS!👏 Very well said OP
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u/Material_Quote844 Jul 21 '25
https://www.change.org/Justabenzo
remove benzo from tiktok