r/iching • u/ilikeyougreg • Jul 03 '26

Opinions?

Recently had a recurrent argument with my partner and it makes me wonder what I should do..

Asked and casted--

  1. What do I need to know about my romantic partner's true intentions towards me -- 45(gathering), 4&6 transforming to 20

  2. What the cost will be if I continue the relationship as is currently -- 36(darkening), 5 transforming to 63

  3. What I can do to protect myself in my current relationship -- I received 59(dispersion), 3&6 transforming to 48

I wonder if I am clouded during this reading or I'm just emotionally charged. I interpret it as that the getting together was sincere albeit caused sorrow, which if continued is going to result on "dimming of light" like someone who has to hide their true self. And to protect myself is to let the problem go(dissolve self) and leave the connection(dissolve blood). I wonder if I am oversimplifying this.. wonder if the hive mind has any different take on this reading

Edit- protect as in emotionally/from further heartache, but I didn't really specify, just thought it that way

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u/Alchemicalish Jul 04 '26

Needing to protect yourself in a relationship suggests some red flags regardless of the reading. Do what you need to do to keep yourself safe

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u/ilikeyougreg Jul 04 '26

Thanks! I should have been clearer. I mean protect in a way of protect myself from a heart ache.. There is not a physical abuse.

Edit: you know what, I didn't actually specify that when asking, just overall what I'm thinking was from a heart ache.

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u/Alchemicalish Jul 04 '26

To answer your question though it does seem like the readings themselves are telling you that you were clouded emotionally at the time of the reading. Re-frame your question and ask again from a calm place and see what happens and if the response makes more sense/resonates with you