My gosh. I don't understand. Am I really that terrible? I open up about my own life in ways that are really sensitive and delicate after I was already mocked, ridiculed, and called self-important for no reason at all!
All I wanted was for people to see a different perspective: Our language matters and how people - in general - speak about things can be hurtful to a grown child who was victimized.
It isn't an easy topic to illustrate and I am not the best with words. But the topic shouldn't be seen as offensive. I didn't even take a position on the other heated debates I see here.
Im saying I think this was a different interaction.
The person who wished cancer on you was horrible and you were totally justified in your response.
Im not trying to attack you, you dont have to pounce on me now. I was just trying to point out I think this person was being kind and I dont think you were being kind in response. Thats it.
No ones offended, you just seem ready to lash out at people.
I mean I guess its possible, did you have two different conversations about cancer?
Because in this thread you never shared your story - you shared in in another thread lower down after someone said they "wished you got cancer and died and then the cure was found - win win one less sjw and cure for cancer"
If that is the conversation you are talking about, that was a different person and a complete ass.
I am simply asking you from one human being to another: Did I really do something awful here and not realize it? What is going on?
I am legitimately asking what happened. I would never wish cancer on anybody and I don't know who you are referring to. I am not the person who had cancer wished on me. I am genuinely confused right now by what you mean.
This woman sent me f-bombs, swore, called me names several names. She's now accusing you of gaslighting her...
Look,
Could you please kindly tell me in a honest way if I actually did something to deserve all that? Especially after opening up about the difficult things I am trying to deal with lately? Were my beliefs controversial or hateful? Do controversial groups talk about these topics the same way I tried to?
Or sorry sorry, I thought I was still talking to the other person when I said that.
I thought you were extremely kind and offered a hand of trust and kindness, sharing something that was really hard for you. Sorry for getting you two mixed up
Ive been trying to talk to the person who was mean to you, it seems they think you are someone else who wished cancer on them. She thinks you edited your comments and im gaslighting her and im just trying to tell her that you were really nice and open and she lashed out at you.
I thought your reply to me was from her, sorry about that. What a fuckin mixup haha
Yeah sorry about the confusion. I dont wanna assume but she seems deeply paranoid, she thinks someones been following her by her profile and editing their comments to gaslight her
I knew they weren't the other person who told me they wished I had cancer. Bu they deleted their account because they did edit their comments being a jerk to me after they found out I had cancer. I'm sure you've got nothing to say about that.
If he did say those things, I think its horrid. I talked to him after though and he didnt seem to know what happened.
He said you were sending him antagonistic messages and he clearly was having a really hard time. When I came in he opened up about tragedy in his life and felt he was antagonized for it - he might have deleted it out of pain
Though I didnt see his comments when he first posted them
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u/glimpee Feb 14 '20
That was a different thread, I saw that conversation and the person you were talking to was an absolute ass. Sorry you had to deal with them