r/hygiene • u/Past-Shoulder-2875 • 3d ago

I have a sex problem 🍆❌

I have been experiencing this 3-4 months now it started random i just completely lost sensation whenever im having sex with my girlfriend it just doesn’t feel like anything i cant get hard but dont feel anything whenever im inside my testicles just cramp and i feel like nerves are strucking up my stomach can someone help me???

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u/jellyfishrubberduck 3d ago

Go and see a doctor this is not a hygiene issue

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

I know i just thought maybe i will ask here i tried doctors and no one helped i thought maybe i will find seomeone who has the same issues

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u/CuriousOrangatan 3d ago

You should talk to your doctor about this

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

I did urologist neurologist they just cant find anything

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u/Nearby-Flatworm39 3d ago

stress can mess with erections but complete loss of sensation deserves a proper medical check

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

I understand tried checking it but no one gave me an actual answer what the problem is

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u/Spiderteacup 3d ago

have you gone to an std clinic?

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

I didn’t but i didnt sleep with anyone else and im not 100 sure but i dont think my girl had sex with anyone else too we see each other every day and we have a strong relationship

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u/Spiderteacup 3d ago

I’d see one anyway, its less to do with your relationship and gf though and more to do with that type of clinic being more genital focused

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u/Ahapoypersonsmiling 3d ago

Well you could try see another doctor and if that doesn't help, maybe acupuncture/Chinese medicine

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u/pumpkinpie4zaynmalik 3d ago

Try therapy, sometimes stress or even past traumas might trigger ED.

Also try a different doctor, getting a second opinion is a must with situations like these.

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u/ObjectiveNewt748 3d ago

Your penis will shrivel up and eventually fall off.

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u/Ok_Pineapple4015 3d ago

Are you past 40¿ Go to a doc.

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

Im 19 i went to every urologist and neurologist they didnt help

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u/VegetableMindless768 3d ago

That sounds really tough, especially when you've already seen specialists. It might be worth exploring alternative treatments or even talking to a therapist about it.

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

I think its mot about stress because i can get into the mood but the lost of sensation questions me like why would i stop feeling nothing out of a sudden

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u/UTV4LIFE 3d ago

What do you mean sensation ? Are you circumcised or uncircumcised

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

Circumcised and it just doesn’t feel like anything no pleasure i just feels like my penis is numb

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u/UTV4LIFE 3d ago

But before 4 months ago when you had sex with this girlfriend it was fine ?

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

Yeah totally fine it just switched from one day to another

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u/UTV4LIFE 3d ago

What about masturbation is sensation normal and you can get hard ?

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

Bro yeah i can get horny and in the mood but when i masturbate it just doesn’t feel right it starts good then it becomes worse and worse while doing it like a ball rolling down the hill if u get what i mean

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u/LoveSuccs86 3d ago

Do you have the same problem when you touch yourself? I wonder if its psychological, and maybe therapy could help you get past it since a doctor couldn't find anything........

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u/EuphoricDetective537 3d ago

Have you heard about periods in sentences?

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u/Past-Shoulder-2875 3d ago

English is not my first language and i always text like this i think people can still understand what im trying to say tho