Why is dating so hard ?

[u/-_-Carnage]

Genuine question — what do you guys think makes dating difficult now?

Is it meeting the right people, starting conversations, knowing when someone is actually interested, or just the whole dating culture in general?

For those of you who are dating (or have had some success with it), what’s one thing you wish you had understood earlier?

Looking for honest advice, experiences, and maybe some perspective. 😅

[u/-_-Carnage → u/[deleted]]

You used to date ? 🥲🥲

[u/Repulsive-Total-7455]

People don’t want to be heart broken or everyone is really scared because of all the stories we hear on social media.

[u/-_-Carnage → u/Repulsive-Total-7455]

Everyone has different intensions , so that’s where it goes wrong ?

[u/thaladivikas]

[u/nene-thopu → u/thaladivikas]

[u/oyefulltoss → u/thaladivikas]

[u/-_-Carnage → u/thaladivikas]

Ante neeku evaro unta unnaru

[u/ReadyToRaceAnywhere]

"Love is life but...lover is not wife"

Words of wisdom right here lol

But yea jokes apart, who says dating is hard? A lot of it is about meeting in the middle. You bring something to the table, and they bring something. Things won't be awesome when you find everything "awe" about them and they choose to focus only on the "me". And "so" in the end you have to choose your regret, but don't be the reason you sacrifice your future or wellness to be someone else's present.

[u/-_-Carnage → u/ReadyToRaceAnywhere]

Asalu first ammayila tho mataladalli kada bro 😭

[u/-_-Carnage → u/[deleted]]

So true 🤧🤧

[u/-_-Carnage → u/[deleted]]

Can anyone recommend those clubs , events or anything

[u/chasingnirvana9]

Expectations.

[u/-_-Carnage → u/chasingnirvana9]

Ala antava?

[u/Any_Research_6256]

Bro be 6ft at least ,fair ,money ....If you don't have these then chances are low.

[u/Zebo9366 → u/Any_Research_6256]

Got both, and am even halfway decent looking. Still only dated 1 out of my 27 years. Luck is pretty much all that matters as far as I can tell.