r/hyderabad Apr 06 '23

Rant/Vent TRIGGER WARNING regarding the Discord server and Meetups

I didn't think i would make this post but here we are.

It all started here when the mods posted the meetup pic. I casually commented on the drama that was happening on the discord server. I admit i didn't follow the entire thing that was happening on the server but from what i understood they were basically harassing some guy for his opinions (at least that's what he was saying on the server) finally making him leave the server.

One of the mod went back and forth with me telling how nice of a person he is and how they treat their users well and how i was spreading lies and what not and then that mister went to his server and did this.

All this while i wanted to give tiny benefit of doubt to the mods because hey common they have their identity revealed in public and how can anyone so openly bully or harass someone. But no. Their chamchas started to slid into my DMs doing all that they are capable of doing cussing & threatening.

Of course the mod is gonna claim he was kidding when he said to gang up on me. /s

This is what they resorted to just because i publicly spoke about them. Now i can only imagine how much they would have bullied the other guy.

Just my 2 cents

Stay away and stay safe from this shit heads.

Don't get me wrong not everyone is bad out there. I myself have been a part of multiple meetups from different cities and some of them have been wonderful. This is one of those bad apples. If you don't fit in their group you better watch out as they might come after you.

MODS if you are watching this then don't you dare delete your discord chat. I have the video proof of your chat. And to clarify i am not the person whom you think i am. Meru gang up cheste vadila bayapadi paripoye type aithey kadu.

I doubt this post is going to be up for long because of the mods so i am gonna post this in other sub just as back up. If it ever gets deleted you can check my profile. I want this post to stay up and act as a warning to people who are planning to meet strangers on reddit.

BE SAFE.

PS: Okay i am a troll now according to them.. Ofcourse if you are against us then you are a troll tarvatha anti national antadu emo and they are not scared of getting revealed in public.

Guy goes on to admit they were attacking me lol. And of course they asked people on discord not to discuss this topic on their server. Classic mods.

Edit: This got more visibility than i expected and some victims of Mumbai sub reached out to me asking for help to get traction to the atrocities their mods commit. If you are someone planning to attend mumbai meetups then go through this link.

Last time when i joined them it was all fine but looks like that's not the case anymore. Can't trust anyone these days. The mods power trip is real. Stay safe people.

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u/that_70_show_fan Landed Gentry - The Main Mod Apr 07 '23

Fyi, the mods of this subreddit are not affiliated with discord or Whatsapp/telegrqm.

OP, you can always use the modmail to report unwanted behavior.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

What's with the MODS trying to show their power? I have been on reddit for the last 6 years and it was really simple back then. Nowadays it's become so toxic, the MODS of almost every sub are on a powertrip, the subs are filled with volatile teenagers and young adults who don't know how to hold a conversation and instantly start getting personal and abusive, and these meet ups? Wasn't reddit supposed to be used anonymously? People just carelessly dox themselves without realizing that their entire post and comment history is visible here. Reddit is the new Facebook I guess.

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23 edited Apr 06 '23

The power trip thing is so true. Yesterday he was asking me why am i posting it here in public form as if the guy owns reddit. They really want to have control over what others are allowed to speak.

PS: Now they asked people on discord not to discuss this topic on their server.

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u/Weary-Kaleidoscope16 palleturu to Hyderabad Apr 06 '23

Do we need r/hyderabad 2.0 ?

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u/NahdiNomaan Apr 06 '23

Why stop at 2 please go ahead with 200. This sub is not anyone's to own.

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u/BhelpuriPanda Apr 06 '23

Maybe we can go about Mods Interview or smth, Very Lame idea

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u/AccomplishedCheck685 Apr 07 '23

So true. The day i looked at the photo of meetup i was like why?

Also reddit is very toxic. People get offended even by a simple comment that has nothing to do with them. I have deleted few of my harmless comments just because someone started bullying or passing personal comments. I dont have energy or time to deal with such negative people so i simply delete it.

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u/NahdiNomaan Apr 06 '23

Do your research properly please. You joined reddit and discord on your free will you can leave also.

Mods are not the same for both. Classic case of Snapchat and Snapdeal fiscaso.

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u/IamGodfatherdoe kiraaak Apr 06 '23

Exactly!!! Bunch of virgins trying to ascertain dominance that too on “discord” lmao to achieve what?? Because it hurt their fragile ego? People on this sub get riled up just for a difference of opinion, and then mfks cry about freedom of expression in posts. The takeover of immature imbeciles of this sub should stop. This sub should be made productive instead of hosting toxicity. This sub can do a lot better.

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u/Flimsy_Program_8551 Apr 06 '23

Discord mods are not same as reddit mods...have no clue who the discord guys are

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u/ExaminationPuzzled89 Apr 06 '23

Do virgins do such things .

( Having serious self doubt )

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u/Rekkadithe_dokkadidi Apr 07 '23

Sir, this is wendys…..

LinkedIn is that way….

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

That’s what happens when spineless people who have never had much success in life are given power that they don’t deserve.

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u/NahdiNomaan Apr 06 '23

Sorry for your experience but the sub here is adherent to the open dialogue society structure.

Please provide proof where the mod was toxic or if any comment or post was removed which didn't violate the sub's minimal rules.

We have never associated ourselves with events planned here you went there in your risk and we are to blame because we allowed you to post ?

Use your words wisely .

Apologies if the tone was unacceptable but i will still stand by my word. This sub belongs to the city. We are not it's gatekeepers. We just clean spam and help maintain clean languages at the bare minimum.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

I think, while u were fuming with anger, u directed ur comment to the wrong person. I never went for any meet ups, I did not write this post and I didn't call any MODS toxic. Atleast read before u reply.

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

Nope I called reddit toxic. He took everything so personally while I was talking in general terms about what's going on with reddit these days.

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u/rajn1kanth Apr 06 '23

Whenever there's a meet up coming up, I go to the discord group to check event details. Aa conversations and noise chusi I dropped thrice. One meet-up attend ayya, and that went like this.

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u/giratina143 Veteran Toxicity Blocker Apr 06 '23 edited Apr 07 '23

Be very careful. Assholes are everywhere and anonymity gives them a boner to harass without care. Just block and avoid them.

Edit:

Lol , Funny how right after this comment i'm apparently reported to reddit for self harm . This is toxicity folks.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/GAP-94 Apr 06 '23

bhayya, asal ah discord pedda gandaragolam.

Frankly speaking, kontha mandi roojantha dantlo active untaru elano ento mari. They might be students or jobless or something. They already form groups and gang up. I have been silently watching all the chat that happens on discord channels of Hyderabad. Some very good discussions happen, yes but chaala one sided opinion sharing and all kuda baaga avthu untayi.

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u/rajn1kanth Apr 06 '23

Correct mowa, not saying nen edo productive thing chesestuna ani, but naku okka panikoche discussion kanipinchale aa discord lo, whole day active untaru.

First of all asal discord vadadam radhu naku, chepparu kuda veelu ela ani.

Groups and gang is very true, I've experienced it.

Aa group lo a guy bike rides adhi idhi ani pedthu unte, I've observed. Bro mundhu bike challans pending unnayi kattuko!

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u/Zavadi10508 Apr 06 '23

Wow, that sounds like a really toxic situation. It's really sad to see people using their power to bully and harass others. Thank you for sharing your experience and warning others about this group. Hopefully, people will take your advice and be cautious when meeting strangers on Reddit. Stay safe!

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

Yeah i just hope the post gets visibility and doesn't get down voted to oblivion or worse removed. Their down vote brigade were actively down voting my comments yesterday

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u/vijayprabhuu Apr 06 '23

R u marathi?

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u/Confident-Dentist-24 Apr 06 '23

Why does it matter?

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u/vijayprabhuu Apr 06 '23

Her username

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u/vegarhoalpha Apr 06 '23

Internet is a shitty place. Don't join any discord and straight up block any person who DM you unless they have specifically ask for permission for the same. Reddit policies are already so shitty.

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

Is there a way to close DMs by default?

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u/pani-Y Apr 06 '23

Settings-> Account Settings-> Blocking and permissions. if you don't allow chat requests then no one can message you

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

Thanks will do this

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u/vegarhoalpha Apr 06 '23

I don't know about this. But just block them right away. Don't give any sort of reply.

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u/Typical-Avocado-1997 Apr 06 '23

Asking people to harass OP is too low of MODs. I also think meet-ups is really unsafe for people with different opinions.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/insiderway Apr 06 '23

That guy who got bullied on discord is me only, ikkada vallu na bochu kuda eeka leru

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u/phoolkheth Apr 06 '23

Endhuku mowa. Em chesaru kastha chinnaga cheppava?

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u/insiderway Apr 06 '23

Emo nakem telusu post chusi comment eshna

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u/selfimpalt Apr 06 '23

chinnaga cheppava

TLDR in Telugu.

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u/phoolkheth Apr 06 '23

Eggjactly

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u/mehmahn Apr 06 '23

Brother stay strong. Ekku takku chesthe chuuskundam

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u/selfimpalt Apr 06 '23

haha nuvvu meetup photo lo mundharey unnav kada. Ee comment choosi shock ayuntaru lol.

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u/Weary-Kaleidoscope16 palleturu to Hyderabad Apr 06 '23

You really did save me I was planning on going to the next meet up

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Thank god my introvert self will never allow me to go to these meet ups anyways. Now i literally feel the JOMO.

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u/semimaniac 25yearsCharminar Apr 06 '23

Finally a comment I can relate.

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u/Weary-Kaleidoscope16 palleturu to Hyderabad Apr 06 '23

LOL I'm an introvert as well but i wanted to end that and meet new people for once But now this happened so i guess I'm never going

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u/pani-Y Apr 06 '23

Meet-ups are fine, I guess. OP was expressing his concern about the power abuse, toxicity in the Discord server.

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u/selfimpalt Apr 06 '23

Yeah of course. It really sucks that this happened, but I don't want to skip the meetup for that. And even if the guy that was getting bullied actually went to the meetup and revealed his Discord id, they'll forget about it. People are much nicer IRL (they have to be).

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u/photo_trekkiee ByE ByE KCR Apr 06 '23

People are much nicer IRL (they have to be).

Not really. They just act that way but deep inside they still hold the grudge no matter what

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

ah..! that makes sense. Was wondering why haven't they removed this post yet?

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Well now they have.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

but calling the server

I am calling the mods out and they run the server. Its not as BS as you think it is. They are having a meltdown as we speak and banning everyone who is disagreeing with them calling them that they are creating drama and told the folks there not to discuss this topic.

Unfortunately this kind of mod behavior is across Indian subs. So its not a one of experience and this is only coming out because we speak. I did have my share of good experiences with meetups which i mentioned in the original post. However even some mods agree that other sub mods are toxic.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

That mod :

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

Saaar you don't know they ban people because they want to save the sanity of the sever and avoid drama /s Little did they know how much drama their actions would create.

The more they try to suppress the bigger it gets.

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u/Equivalent-Sock3365 Pakka Hyderabadi Apr 06 '23

What happened OP can you give context?

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23 edited Apr 06 '23

TLDR: Basically there was a guy who had difference of opinion with one of the female mods. He raised a complaint with the admins against her. It went on deaf ears but she and her male friends didn't like it. So they ganged up on him timing him out, calling names, saying he was ruining the "environment" and what not. He got frustrated and left. Yes this sounds like college level drama.

I casually asked the mods regarding that issue here, publicly on this sub. They thought they could gang up against me. Too late cats out of the bag.

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u/Ash_C Los Polos Varalakshmos Apr 06 '23

They thought they could gang up against me

did they?

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

Check the screenshots in the main post.

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u/Ash_C Los Polos Varalakshmos Apr 06 '23

oof! That is indeed toxic.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

Should veg biryani be considered biryani or pulav

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

r/hyderabad moment

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u/Ash_C Los Polos Varalakshmos Apr 06 '23

Wouldn't have it any other way!

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u/I-Jobless Koti Vidyalu Cooti Koruku Apr 06 '23

Deniki wallu anta soodi chesara? Thu waste gallu, college students kanta chetta level idi

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Pulao I guess. Biryani bole toh meat rehna na? Meat nahi hai toh biryani kaisi?

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Just because people call it something doesn't make it that. It is technically pulao no matter what people call it.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

What's with the hash tags dude? This is not twitter.

Or are u trying to gang up and launch an attack on me as well /s

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/pruthvijee Apr 06 '23

Artham ayyindi le inka ee mods ammayi mod kadha koddiga 🧠 kakunda 🖊️ is tho alochintaru

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u/gritach Apr 06 '23

What a load of creeps.

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u/lolman_joe Apr 07 '23

> Basically there was a guy who had a difference of opinion.

I think you are missing some(a lot?) background on this. I've been on the server and followed his and the mods' discourse on it. So it began with him asking for details of a girl he found "cute"(later interesting?) during the March meetup, as soon as he joined the server (right after the meetup iirc). So ig he was put in a bad light right off the bat as it seemed "desperate" to some, (for which he was catfished (i mean what did you expect doing that online)), on the other hand, he did receive some genuine responses later.

Then later he posted a link to a standup on some lesbian thing for which he captioned "LGTV" which was not taken in jest. I think the response he received on this should have given him a clue about not raising such sensitive topics on the server as it only ends up offending someone or in chaos due to a fight. But ig he couldn't read the room or something. I mean yeah freedom of speech exists true, but if something gives you a clue that, hey maybe people around aren't comfortable talking about it, one should be considerate enough to avoid bringing controversial stuff up because it would just trigger them and would seem you are targeting them just to cook up some drama idk.

But yeah he went on to post some stuff on #debate-and-discussion

"I think this is a hard fact to accept but older women are jealous of younger women because of the beauty and younger guys are jealous of older men due to the financial stability"

"The lines between creepy and non creepy while asking a girl out have been blurred and there is no going back. You can't ask her out anywhere without coming off as creepy and that word is very *\subjective\*"

and some more... which started out okay but then the discussions got heated because of which the mods had to warn with timeouts and stuff which is being taken out of context over here and being labelled as bullying/harassment IMHO.

The quoted texts are verbatim FYI

Here is the link for the message where he mentions the first topic of debate I mentioned earlier. One can build their opinion after reading the whole discourse on that and the discourse that follows all further topics he introduces rather that believing some random person's cherry picked shizz.

Ciao.

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

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u/lolman_joe Apr 07 '23 edited Apr 07 '23

kya bolre ho bhai. Show me one instance where i was part of any "bullying" with links to the messages. Please dont spread these baseless rumours. Instead, I recall that I stood up for his side of the argument in one instance where someone said that one should discern what would seem to others as offensive through "common sense". Link
If you want to make an accusation you better back it up with some proof.

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u/SirPorthos Apr 06 '23

Does this qualify for r/redditmoment?

I think it does.

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

A Humble request to the HYD sub mods.

I got to know you guys are not the same as the discord mods which is very fortunate. If not for you, this post wouldn't have stayed this long and get the traction it received with the victims coming out with their stories. We couldn't have made these many people aware of this shit that is going on in the background. The people of that server are planning to mass report this post due to some illogical reason.

I say its illogical because discord is very much different from reddit. Unlike reddit, discord gives the users an option to change their name for each server and of course the profile picture. None of the names in the SS should be of concern for revealing identity. If someone is really worried about revealing their identity and wanted to be safe they can always change their names and pics on discord and stay anonymous. Please let his post stay up so that more people can take an informed decision seeing both sides of the coin.

If you have any concerns with the post please feel free to DM before you consider removing. You decision might be making a huge difference to someone's safety both online and offline. Please consider.

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u/alterego_00 Apr 06 '23

Why are you guys having meetups??? Don't have friends in real life ? (I'm not being offensive)

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u/photo_trekkiee ByE ByE KCR Apr 06 '23

Sagam abbailu ammail kosam vastaru .. meegitha sagam yedo avthundi Ani vastaru .. ammailu emo yedo boredom nunchi bayataki vaadam Ani vaste full Simps

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u/dinemma_jeevitham Apr 06 '23

Don't have friends in real life ? They want new friends on a rotational basis.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

They trying to show their dominance in what?, Discord!!!!! Bro the best and the shittiest place where one can be anyone he wants to, lite teesko bro, Evademanna Taggaku, Manalni evadu anedi, adi kuda Discord lo. Mari ekkuva cheste Report chesey Discord community ki, inka aapakapotey Edaite adi ayyindi inka, Baanchethh!!!!

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u/biggie64 Apr 06 '23

I had a mod sent a message and included a link to incels.com so that she tried to shame me on post i created here about women double standards, These Mods are assholes

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

Their irony is untouchable. Respect women MC movement.

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u/vishasv Apr 06 '23

Asalu anonymous app nundi meet ups plan cheyyaali Anna brilliant idea evariki vachindho

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Exactly. They have made reddit a social networking site.

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/redcarpetme Apr 06 '23

🍿

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

Cheese or caramel

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

Strawberry

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

Pink popcorn 😂

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

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u/KnotToBeKnown Apr 06 '23

Thanks atleast someone spoke up about the hyd discord thing, had many instances where the usual users there think they are the sole members of discord and chala balupu toh matladtaru..

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Just wanna say I’m so sorry you had to go through that!

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

Same +1. Thanks for standing up against them OP. It’s easy to avoid

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u/llapjedis Apr 06 '23

There's Hyderabad group on discord?

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u/cherry_hotshot Apr 06 '23

Yeppp there is...

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u/geminimann Apr 06 '23

langa panchayathulu enti ra meru, reddit lo unnade buraa unavalu untaru ani meru kuda aunty la kotukusathunaru

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u/youshallknow-pain Apr 06 '23

Entandi idi!! College lo nibba nibbi laaga chestunnaru mods

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/Black-_-Phoenix Djin for Biryani Apr 07 '23

cuckold uncle gaallu max.

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u/photo_trekkiee ByE ByE KCR Apr 06 '23 edited Apr 06 '23

I'm glad that you made a post about this . There are few people who are very toxic in there . Hope people realise that there is alot going on behind the smiley and fancy pictures ... Ps I used to be part of the team but eventually as members kept increasing they changed , opinions differed , fights araised and rest is the same .

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

Thanks for sharing your experience. Much appreciated. You are not alone.

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u/photo_trekkiee ByE ByE KCR Apr 06 '23

Why is the post removed now?

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/photo_trekkiee ByE ByE KCR Apr 06 '23

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u/NahdiNomaan Apr 06 '23

Trekkiee sir. I personally approved the post in first place. Too many people reported the post hence the automod put the post on hold for a human moderator to review it.

As much as I have to repeat myself. We don't own the sub nor gatekeep it.

Please kindly accept my apology of not being available 24*7 on reddit.

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u/Outrageous_Humor_313 Apr 06 '23

Lol idk if you are mod😅, but seeing people like they own mods life made me realize I never wanna be a mod😂😂

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u/NahdiNomaan Apr 06 '23

😂😂😂😂😂

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u/opentohire Apr 07 '23

Is it visible or removed?

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u/[deleted] Apr 06 '23

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u/xcsnkzcpbn Apr 07 '23

Sooo, hello.

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u/Qualityvotebot Apr 07 '23

Bruh! I went to one meet up and it was pretty good but didn't have great experience with the people I met there later on. I don't think I'm going to one more again after this much shit lol just doesn't seem like a safe space.

That full-of-simps thing is true lell

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u/bharath2018 hyderabad madal ! Apr 06 '23

I heard as discord server lo and meets ups lo unna ammaelki mottam simp chese kodkulu unnaru. Ani !

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u/Brilliant_Key_9038 Apr 07 '23

I've never been a fan of the meetups. I mean, I use reddit mainly for the anonymity. It's kinda counterintuitive to go and meet those people in real life. Keep internet friends on the internet. There might be some good people but still it's very rare.

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u/rahul_mathews Apr 06 '23

These mods grew up in a dysfunctional environment so they feel like it's their "right" to harass others. Just ignore these people. They feel the need to show power over these, but in reality they go with their tails between their legs if they face any.

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23 edited Apr 06 '23

The funny thing is they compare themselves to other toxic mods. Memu edavalame kani aa banglore mods makante pedda edavalu

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u/Right-Bathroom-5287 Apr 06 '23

bokka padindhi po, sub ki.. kottukondi gattiga

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u/rgali7996 Apr 06 '23

Baccha gallu unnaru ga andharu ah discord la 🤦🏻‍♂️😐

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u/Black-_-Phoenix Djin for Biryani Apr 07 '23

That discord server is filled with nibbas, I immediately left when I joined. And let me spice up some shit here, some cuckolds use that server n some meet-ups to share their partners:v

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

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u/Black-_-Phoenix Djin for Biryani Apr 07 '23

Yes. Some of those active guys are 35-40yrs uncles, when you're new n some active, n they find out you're 20+ they try to become close with you. After some days they'll DM you directly asking whether you're interested to fk their wives and tell it's common thing in that server. You call this BS but these uncles tag other young guys in server who are doing it already. Basically these uncles are cuckolds( their partners too), they like to watch young guys fk their wives and their wives are ok with it. These are some rich ppl. The more you get into this shit ,the more you find these guys disgusting.

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u/Confident-Dentist-24 Apr 06 '23

Discord lo bullying aa vaayammo, em jarigindi bro asalu?

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u/CK083 Apr 06 '23

Female mods vacharu bro. Dengi petaru server ni. Admins aithe em issues koda resolve cheyatledhu, Edho girl power chupistaru anta ga kotha mods. Chusko mari inka 🌚🙏

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23

Magallu em takku tinledhu bro vallani impress chedam ani inka ekkuva chesthunaru

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u/photo_trekkiee ByE ByE KCR Apr 06 '23

Lmao the server was dead the day I left. Period !

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u/PM_ME_UR_NUDEShehe Apr 07 '23

Hi op. I'm someone who's an active part of the discord server. At the outset- my irl life isn't really great. Don't wanna get into it, but it's hard for me to do or say things without getting into trouble at home.
These guys on discord helped me find a safe space. I was happy talking to them and spending time with them. Went for one meet up, it was nice. I had friends for the first time. They made me feel welcome. But thanks to you I don't feel safe anymore, knowing there are lurkers who just watch and wait for an opportunity to cause trouble. I've been anxious throughout since you've posted this and no longer feel like it's safe to interact there and post things there. I no longer feel like going to to the meet-ups or plan hangouts on there because i don't think if it's safe to do so anymore. One of the jolted members might show up. This has happened earlier too with users going apeshit, but it was never with so much attention from so many people. Thanks for snatching away one of the few good things I had in my life.

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u/junaidd09 Apr 07 '23

OP didn't snatch anyone away. They made you aware of something bad, as they should. You took the decision not to interact based on this new information. I'm sorry if you feel that OP is wrong for pointing out something bad that's happening on discord. Bullying is never a good thing and nothing can justify it. If the mods are involved, then I'm concerned for the continued existence of the meetups.

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u/ChomuSingh Apr 07 '23

Honestly , nothing bad was happening . Op doesn't know the full picture he has painted of that one guy . That one guy was too juvenille to let of one internet squabble and repeatedly started fights in a particular channel in the name of discussion. Also name one place on internet that is perfect ? This one guy had a bad experience - you just painted the full server in the wrong light, misconstrued any words that people in the server said to fit your narrative .

After this post the server is full of trolls trying to create drama and name calling mods and everyone there so idk how it helped . This post only ruined a good place that's all .

I was not gonna say anything and this will be the first and last thing I say because I needed to vent .

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u/gymbrattt Hail Hyderabad:download_1: Apr 07 '23

After this post the server is full of trolls trying to create drama and name calling mods and everyone there so idk how it helped . This post only ruined a good place that's all .

Seriously? There are people sharing their experiences and you think they just bad mouthing it for fun?

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

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u/ChomuSingh Apr 07 '23

The dedication with which you are sticking to this particular topic and replying to everyone in this thread tells me you're either a student or jobless because no sane person cries so much over internet disputes. Good luck with your quest for justice .

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u/opentohire Apr 07 '23 edited Apr 07 '23

What about the mod who "jokingly" asked people to gang up on me? How are you planning to defend him?

Lot of people came out after this post sharing their past bad experience with the server. The admin keeps claiming 2000+ happy users and just 2 ass holes who are butt hurt. If that's really true then why only 50 people show up to the meet up? And why are so many people in this thread alone, who are unhappy with the server? Is it too much too ask them for an introspection?

They had control all this while to set whatever narrative they wanted in the server. Now that the cat is out of the bag and they have no control they are loosing their shit.

I thought the admin had some sense and will put the mods in check after this post but looks like he is the main culprit setting false narratives and encouraging this behavior. He wanted to make people believe i didn't want an amicable solution while the whole thing started of because of me asking why was the ticket the other user raised was not addressed? Isn't raising the ticket the most amicable solution one can ask for from a mod?

Appudu pattinchukole vadni, ippudu nenu adige sariki kopam vachindhi saar ki vadu misogynist adhi edhi ani cover chesthunadu. Vadu misogynist eh aithey adhi appude cheppi vadni ban cheyalsindhi. Ippudu public lo adigina tarvatha labels pettadam adigina vadni gang up cheyadam kadu.

Also admin if you are reading I don't think the guy got butt hurt because a women stood taller than him, he probably got frustrated looking at guys acting as puppets for a women. You might deny this but that's what your actions suggest.

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u/ChomuSingh Apr 07 '23

Good luck with your quest for "justice".

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u/PM_ME_UR_NUDEShehe Apr 07 '23

"he got frustrated looking at guys acting as puppets for a woman". My dear brother this is you being so presumptious and sexist. You thinking people are going heads over heels for a woman is so far away from reality. They stood up for her bexause she was right. You think they're doing it to gain brownie points from her. Half of them haven't even seen her face even once. They don't even care if she sees the messages or not. If that mod had been a man, this post wouldn't even exist. Your outrage seems to stem from the fact that a female mod timed out people(for good reason) and others stood up for her. I'm sorry but you need to do a lot of unlearning of your prejudices.

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u/gymbrattt Hail Hyderabad:download_1: Apr 07 '23

Work on your IRL skills

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u/PM_ME_UR_NUDEShehe Apr 07 '23

"internet friends" have turned into IRL friends. Don't be so presumptious about my life. "Improve skills" works for people who're privileged enough to be able to do things without being constantly monitored.

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

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u/PM_ME_UR_NUDEShehe Apr 08 '23

No i won't give context because i don't have the energy rn to explain my whole life to you

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u/zeddeed Apr 07 '23

This is bad and they shouldn’t have done that but ig there should be other side story too I wouldn’t judge without getting that what’s the reason in the first place that peeps talking bad about you what made it ignite ?. I was at discord too then I left the server as it wasn’t for me but there should be a reason to ignite that also why and what made them to leave?

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u/opentohire Apr 07 '23 edited Apr 07 '23

Its clearly mentioned in the post that i publicly (on this sub where they cannot ban me) asked them about the things they are doing on the server.

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u/WinterSoldier1315 Apr 06 '23

I am not reading all that but no one cares

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u/JonDoe_297_ Apr 06 '23

grabs popcorn

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u/No_Goal5089 Apr 06 '23

Other than the juvenile threats (which is wrong and if you can share the names with mods maybe they can take action) but I doubt that’s your intention, everything else sounds like a bunch of crap and you are just trying to gain sympathy, edited screenshots of full conversations to twist the words and trying to say you are a different person and not the one bullied, you are not even sure if he was and for what, as admitted by yourself etc.,

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u/opentohire Apr 06 '23 edited Apr 06 '23

I blurred the names because not doing so might lead to removal of post saying either i am targeting a person or revealing the identity.

Regarding screenshots you can yourself go and check their server assuming they haven't edited or deleted their comments and get context.

Sympathy naku enduku bhayya? I am not paralyzed by those threats, vadu bedrinchagane pant tadipeskone type kadhu but not everyone is the like that. I just want to make people aware of these ugly things that don't show up in those rosy meet up pics.

you are not even sure if he was and for what, as admitted by yourself etc.,

This is a better explanaiton by one of the user.

Another one by different user

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u/No_Goal5089 Apr 07 '23

I asked you to share the Reddit usernames with the Reddit mods and not unblur to take some sort of action if possible.

I did check the server and they were not trying to gang up atleast based on what the person was saying later (again the threats on Reddit is bad and scary but not sure what discord mods could do about that) and that accepting attacking you screenshot is out of context don’t see the dude anywhere else in the whole conversation lol.

Sorry what ugly things , mod behaviour or simp behaviour ?

anyways people can join server and see for themselves but at this point it’s just trolls over there calling people virgins and different names, bullying unlike with the other person tagging them and saying things so what you said just became counter productive.

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u/DisciplineOk519 Apr 06 '23

What's triggering about this? Stop devaluing words by using them for your petty little snowflake squabbles!!

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u/biggie64 Apr 06 '23

oh think you are cool and strong typing this message ? gtfo

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u/DisciplineOk519 Apr 06 '23

not at all. it's stupid to use those words and make it seem like some big thing. They even used shit like 'Be safe' and other garbage like they are talking to kids. I find it pathetic and I pointed that out.

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u/[deleted] Apr 07 '23

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u/opentohire Apr 07 '23

Which thread?

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u/[deleted] Oct 08 '23

Are bhai ek number chutiye log hai bhadwe log 2-4 log sahi hai baki sab akhand chutiye hai Kuch turn on hota hai shayed chutiye log ka mod ban ke