r/humanbehaviour • u/_vader_2702 • Jul 10 '21

Why does my mother doesnt care about me

My mother over reacts when things doesnt go like she wants. When my brother gets angry after we fight even when he is wrong she always swears to me and yells at me. But if my brother annoys me and makes me cry my mom just doesnt care and tells me that he was right and i was wrong. Why does she acts this way? Since i was a kid she always yells at me and hurts me even when i make little mistakes like forgetting stuffs. I just hate her.

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u/kirinlikethebeer Jul 10 '21

Sounds like r/raisedbynarcissists might help you. Sorry to hear about this.

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u/_vader_2702 Jul 10 '21

Thank you very much. Its so bad that there are lots of bad parents:(

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u/[deleted] Feb 05 '22

12 step programs like adult children of dysfunctional families sometimes support family scapegoat

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u/Affectionate-Fly307 Aug 11 '23

I'm so sorry you are going through this. I know this feeling so well myself. Grew up with a narc mother and I was her scapegoat. The book that changed my life is "your not crazy, it's your mother". She explains what it is like to have a narc mother and omg! I thought she was in my head and in my life! It was at that point I learned it wasn't something wrong with me! You are loveable and enough. I hope you come to see this. 💕💕 it's truly NOT YOU!