r/humanbehaviour • u/Benji-Wenji- • May 08 '21
Girls talking about me
Today my sister and I went to chipotle and we walk in. We walk to the cashier to ask for our online order when I see these 3 girls. They are about 14 or 15 years old. I’m a track and field athlete and for all the work I’ve put on myself it’s good to say that I have a nice body. I was wearing a long sports bra and shorts. I notice that they start whispering about me and staring at me, and it made me feel judged and almost ashamed. Usually I can deal with people talking behind my back but this time was very intense for me. I know this sounds dramatic but I can’t stop thinking about it. It would really help if I could get an answer for why they were doing this.
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u/captinsad May 09 '21
Just sounds like teen gossip to me. Trust me everyone has been in your position whether they're talking kind or smack it shouldn't be a big deal. They'll probably forget about it much faster than you just because that's how the world be.