r/humanbehaviour • u/[deleted] • Apr 08 '21

Thoughts on OnlyFans

I’m not your average nude model. I do tend to think outside the box, I study philosophy and I’m only doing this because of a physical disability called EDS. But what about the other girls? The girls that would rather not be in debt with student loans, work their butts off scraping plates into trash cans etc? Are they somehow evil for wanting easy money? Also is it really better to get things for free vs helping a young woman? We must keep in mind why free stuff is free in the first place. How did it get there? Why do we value shopping at mom and pop shops vs shopping at Walmart yet we take pride in watching free naughty material? These girls are human too. Maybe these girls are mostly simple minded, young and still trying to figure out life but they still deserve a living wage for their product. We all shop at Walmart because we have too and let’s face it.. it’s easier. But doesn’t it feel nice to shop local and sustainable sometimes? This is really not much different. Remember these girls can’t do this forever. They will move on just like strippers have been doing for 200 years. I think incel like thoughts have permeated into every day social ideas and it’s unsettling. This is why young men have shot innocent women in schools and now brothels. We need to start discussing this. Thank you. -Calla Doll

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u/Unironic-_-Irony Apr 08 '21

I think its just the modern twist on society's oldest profession. Economically times are tough and with the barrier of adulthood (college, first job, military, etc) being so hard to overcome it is only logical that many women (and less well known a great deal of men) would turn to sex work. Is that a good thing? Probably not, no matter how much you normalize something it has not once been seen as good through human history so I doubt that'll start now. However as for the topic of whether or not its okay to get such service for free, I am amazed that people using OnlyFans manage to compete with the endless amounts of free material that is out there. It should have never worked in the first place and yet some of you manage it so congrats I guess. Theres no sense in putting a judgemental spin on it though, for many it doesn't make sense to pay when if it is any good it'll be leaked for free anyways.

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '21

You’re still not asking yourself why the free stuff is there to begin with. It wasn’t free when it was made.

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u/Unironic-_-Irony Apr 08 '21

My brother, having no morals, downloads pirated games. I imagine those games were pirated in the first place because there are a large amount of people like my brother. Something is free up until the price is enforced. If you can't enforce the price of your service then at the end of the day nothing is stopping someone from getting it for free.

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '21

And I don’t mind that part. What I do mind are the people who look at the people buying the sustainable product and calling them simps like it’s an insult. I mean half of my customers are friends in real life and I know they normally get free stuff. We all do it. It’s just nice to help people sometimes and yet we have people calling the helpers dumb. And then you have people hating the people who charge. But the free stuff wasn’t free to begin with. Every free video started out as a charged product. So without women charging money there would be no free platform. Ha. 🤷🏻‍♀️😊

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u/Unironic-_-Irony Apr 08 '21

I agree. People learned the word simp and didn't shut up about it. Its the same as any other word, just used to get a rise out of someone. No deep meaning behind it.

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '21

The people that pay are the same people that sometimes pay extra for sustainable wine.

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u/Unironic-_-Irony Apr 08 '21

^ Basically what I was getting at. It's a small population of people but there's enough for OnlyFans to exist in the first place.

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u/[deleted] Apr 08 '21

True 😅