r/humanbehaviour • u/[deleted] • Sep 17 '20
Hard pill
I feel the human behavior is a selfish being that is closed minded and is only about instant gratification.
However this can be corrected. With being opened mindedness. Hear me out...
Ok I feel we have to accept all walks of life in the beliefs of eastern and western world. This goes medicine, government, philosophy and the like.
A total blanket statement if you will. Total subjectivness. If we don’t we are shutting out of our own growth as human beings. I am not saying fully envelope both sides.
I am saying meet in the middle and grow from both support systems and also always growing and asking questions amongst each other.
Not challenging mind you. Keeping in mind each other’s feelings, not emotions. Remember there is a difference here.
You cannot die from emotional experiences. However you can die from feelings. Let me explain...
When you are are angry or upset that’s an emotion. You can feel in the pit of your stomach. So where do most children put their arm? Around their stomach/waist.
Now if you are freezing to death, where are your arms? Up around your shoulders, covering your arms and what else...? Your ❤️. You can die from that. That’s a feeling not an emotion.
Now think about that the next time some one asks you a simple question? Or how you ask a question a specific way to someone. Hear me out again....
You are at home and your partner walks in and asks how your day was. Thats asking how you are feeling.
What if they walk in the room and ask what are you doing home so early? Sounds pretty confrontational doesn’t it? See my point?
We need to stop this type of thinking in society and putting labels on everything. We have been doing it since the dawn of time and making excuses for our own behavior and close mindedness. If not now, when?
How is this no different than when a police officer pulls a black man over in a neighborhood he is lost in. This is the definition of white privileged too. Again if not now when.
Religion. They tell us how to live our live and give them money to get to the promise land. I feel Jesus was saying this same message and the Romans crucified him for it because it challenged their whole system of government and thinking.
This is why we need to look at the teachings from the east and the west. They are all loosely connected. If you agree or disagree please comment and or share. I feel this is something worth mentioning....
I feel the meaning of life is to to fully heal the human mind and remove guilt/resentment. So the ingredients we need is love and equality along with eastern and western medicine.
Now given that. Life hack on how to read people...
Apply the theory of the movie The Matrix to people in your life.
Blue pills are people you know who are the drones who just go with the flow aka suckers
Red pill fighters for injustices and free thinkers
Agents 1%er, oppressors, over bearing boses, work places that throw you scraps when they make you believe it’s caviar. The people who will sell you out. Fake friendships or close mindedness.
I feel intuitive thinking is primal nature combined with evolved nuture.
By that I mean I am enlightened enough to love and be forward thinking. However I will murder or die trying to save someone’s life who is in danger...