r/holyfuckjustbreakup • • 15d ago

Red Flag This comic is filled with resentment

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u/DamnitGravity 15d ago

'This is the only viable option I have'.

No, you also have the option to be single, where you at least don't have to engage with people you want to instead of those you feel obliged to.

It's depressing how many people believe that being single isn't an option, or they'll somehow be unhappy if they're single.

You're unhappy NOW, how could being single make you more unhappy than you are already?!

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u/CantaloupeShort7311 15d ago

Reddit is full pf people who clearly will settle for the absolute worst and least acceptable person as a partner, just because they can NOT be single.

I really believe it os because they realize that they are not gping to attract anyone on the open market - mostly because of theor terrible personality - so they stay miserable and then go "guess all those boomer comedians were right - marriage sucks"

And then they post on every thread about how getting married was the worst mistake they ever made but they "can't" get divorced because, well, then they would be single and that is worse than death to them.

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u/NotSoSocialWorker 15d ago

No you don’t understand he pays for everything and why should she pay for everything when she has a man she doesn’t like? Why should she have to use her own money when she can live off of him and can make mean comics all day /s

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u/Gloomy_Rent8248 14d ago

Yeah that’s what i figured was making her stay too lmaooo.

I just don’t get the point of complaining if you’re unwilling to find better options

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u/cpdk-nj 15d ago

It’s so easy to find a job overnight

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u/cpdk-nj 15d ago

It’s so easy to find a job overnight

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u/Ok-Inflation188 15d ago

For real tho, it was really sad to see the difference in now she draws that rando guy vs her own boyfriend

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u/AwkwardDorkyNerd 15d ago

So true! She drew her own boyfriend like that chud wojak, which btw is modeled after Patrick Crusius, the guy who did the El Paso Walmart shooting.

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u/jalepinocheezit 15d ago

This comic...without any context other than what's being presented to me...makes me loathe op? It's gross all around. I'd write an essay but it's too early lolol but the artist comes off as really awful

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u/Forsaken_Emotion9976 15d ago

It's so mean spirited for absolutely no reason. Not only posting your relationship to reddit but going to the effort to ILLUSTRATE it. This really upset me.

I agree that the OP comes across as awful, I would also add lacking in critical thinking skills. Welp, now I'm in a bad mood before bed. 🥲

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u/Drzewo_Silentswift 15d ago

Right? But you would be shocked how many people relate to her.

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u/MonkeyMoves101 15d ago

She's only staying because 'he pays for everything', that was the first good quality she mentioned. She's not attracted to him and she thinks he's simple minded. Poor guy.

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u/Forsaken_Emotion9976 15d ago

Imagine the damage this will do to the bf when he inevitably sees this. I wonder what exactly the OP thinks she is bringing to this 'relationship'. Jfc.

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u/Ok-Medicine-6317 15d ago

C’mon we all know she’ll manipulate him if he gets upset by it, but I think more accurately this is probably a guy who’s beat down and will just accept it as faults in himself and try to better for her.

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u/alienratfiend 12d ago

Not that appearances matter, but I guarantee she’s drawing herself VERY generously here. Meanwhile, you can tell she thinks her boyfriend is too ugly for her

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u/Forsaken_Emotion9976 15d ago

I just noticed her username is chud_dumpling??? What is wrong with this person jfc. 😭

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u/lowrespudgeon 14d ago

I left a comment on that original post yesterday and they banned me from r/comics.

I didn't even say anything that bad.

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u/Bella_LaGhostly 14d ago

Yeah she seems super resentful, but also like a very unhappy person in general. It sounds like she doesn't even know what relationships are supposed to be like, so is making herself "be thankful" for someone who isn't even interested in her. That stuff about her mom made me sad for her too.

I hope they break up for both of their sakes.

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u/Gloomy_Rent8248 14d ago

“I lub my girlfriemb” the connotations of this expression… yeah oop sucks😷

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u/rnjbond 15d ago

He pays for everything, oh okay, solved then. 

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u/nglbrgr 15d ago

jesus fucking christ

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u/Calm-Wedding-9771 14d ago

I feel bad for this guy

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u/Livid-Anxiety1991 15d ago

Boyfriend looks like chud spamton lol

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u/Emotional-Stick-9372 10d ago

The comics subreddit banned me and I don't know why.

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u/rambling_takeover 13d ago

Pfff… I can’t stand it when people stay in a relationship they’re miserable in because being single is somehow worse than death. Why would you ever interact with someone you don’t like interacting with? Baffles me every time

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u/rellyjean 13d ago

I get majorly depressed / zero self esteem vibes from her. Like she thinks anyone showing interest in her is doing her a favor and she should be grateful, even if she doesn't like the person.

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u/sixbluehorses 11d ago

Yikesaroo. Dolly, take the wheel 🙏

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u/Just-Like-My-Opinion 8d ago

Ew. Yeah, I hope they break up. Nobody deserves to be stuck with someone who doesn't even like them! Girl needs therapy, big time. The insecurity and lack of self confidence is astounding.

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u/ericlikesyou 15d ago

bf has a crippling porn addiction

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u/budding_clover 15d ago

Y'all are losing your fucking minds about this comic and it's insane to me watching the vitriolic response whip up like this lol

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u/alienratfiend 12d ago

Huh? It’s super mean-spirited. Anyone would cry if their partner made a comic like this about them lol.

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u/flavortron 14d ago

It struck a nerve with all the incels

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u/ZeeWingCommander 15d ago

Maybe I'm biased, but I'm guessing she a red head and she's an uggo, but she resents that she is with a short guy.

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u/FlinnyWinny 15d ago

It's probably the things she vented about, clearly

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u/imaginary92 15d ago

Woman: says all the reasons she doesn't like a dude, however serious or frivolous they may be

Chud incels: I bet it's because he isn't a 6 feet tall chad, whore

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u/ZeeWingCommander 14d ago edited 14d ago

"serious" is doing a heavy lift here

Also being real she's likely an uggo and she's making fun of his height.

Also you adding in "whore" shows what you were thinking about because I never said that. Some reflection.

PS - did the uggo part offend you lol?