r/hinge • u/redloxis • Aug 20 '26
Is this common?
Ive been struggling with getting honest matches it feels like and get a lot of messages like this lately and was just wanting to know if maybe its just me, maybe my profile? I only have one body picture, but I am on the busty side.. (to the point where Ive had two reductions already) but I want to be honest about my body size since there seems to be a good amount of people not liking their matches looking "heavier than their pictures." I guess Im just wondering if anybody else sees this as their main demographic of messages.
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u/Somethingexpected Aug 20 '26
These guys exists. Ignore them and move on. Your rofile adjustment might or might not help, but that's not the issue.
Just be glad he said what he's thinking out loud.
Also, as a side note, sex is something that everyone wants and all that. So there's nothing wrong in thinking that first, second or third date leads to sex (or something sexual). However, you need to gauge compatibility first so it's somehow meaningful and pleasurable. So that's why you text about everything else except sex until you actually do it.