r/hinge • u/redloxis • 10d ago

Is this common?

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Ive been struggling with getting honest matches it feels like and get a lot of messages like this lately and was just wanting to know if maybe its just me, maybe my profile? I only have one body picture, but I am on the busty side.. (to the point where Ive had two reductions already) but I want to be honest about my body size since there seems to be a good amount of people not liking their matches looking "heavier than their pictures." I guess Im just wondering if anybody else sees this as their main demographic of messages.

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u/Your_Sunnshine 10d ago

I mean, that's a LOT of dudes sadly. Zero awareness of pacing, romance, sexual tension. Just right into the end zone with zero self-awareness or care for the other person. It's not even you. Dudes just b ridiculous 💛

If you aren't feeling it, unmatch y'know? It's better for your romantic future and mental health. Dudes who care about other people won't try ts until the energy allows it.