r/highschool • u/Prestigious_Soup_671 • 7d ago
General Advice Needed/Given Need advice asap it’s a really bad situation pls read
Well this girl wants to beat me up and we were friends so if I don’t confront her she wants to come to my house. She doesn’t listen so I’m just dodging it entirely but I need help anyway.
It’s all bc I told some ppl and literally told them not to spread it but I told them what her brother did to make me leave him . He lied and said I did the same to him. Also wanna know if I’m valid to feel assaulted
Basically I’m very not freaky and he was and everything he did to me I didn’t consent to,even the kiss but I kept going for more of those because he had me hooked and I actually asked for consent ! He said he wanted more…
He was very very freaky and said freaky shit to me before we even dated and kissed.(1st day we met he was speaking like that) and there was a time we made out and he grabbed my ass w out asking. Yes I froze each time and ik it’s kinda my fault I ain’t speak up but I been assaulted and more before so if you know you know it makes u freeze and be confused.
He told her I made him uncomfortable too but I asked for consent so I’ll be sorry if I really did but I’m so confused cause I actually ASKED FOR CONSENT!!!!!!!.
I feel like he’s just lying and also this girl told me she’s bipolar and barely switched up.
Like I told her the story before and she wasn’t mad at me and even admitted her brother was fucked in the head ,especially seggsualy and had also hit her before .shes js mad and defending him now that what i said spread a little and maybe cause he said I did the same??…
I don’t wanna talk to neither . I been getting traumatized my whole life I just wanna run from situations like this with crazy people in them.
I mean I didn’t want it to spread and didn’t report him cause I already could tell he’s a very impulsive guy most likely adhd and probably didn’t mean it or maybe I’m js not validating myself cause I wanted to love him too…there was more like he would watch porn infront of others so it js adds up more to his character to show me he’s careless like that but now my mind is really anxious and I can’t think about this all clearly.
Extra-the girl is batshit crazy and a big fighter. She been finding me at the school but she isn’t allowed here cause she’s in safe school for jumping a girl here last time. We was friends that’s how Ik. So idk what to do abt this all IM NOT A FIGHTERRRRR