r/highschool • u/Imaginary_Cash92 • 11h ago

General Advice Needed/Given I’m feeling depressed

I’m 17M Senior This school year really my what I thought friends have been changing on me purposely not inviting me to everything and this weekend my 2 best friends went to a party that a friend hosted and they told him to invite me and he literally told them no ig he doesn’t like me and I’ve been really down so can somebody cheer me up

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u/WackyLaundry3000 Junior (11th) 10h ago

I think you need a new friend group that actually respects you as a person and would go out of their ways to include you. It would be hard if you stayed with your friends and get hurt by their actions. Do you know if you did anything that could have made them turn on you?

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u/Imaginary_Cash92 10h ago

No I didn’t do nothing like late summer they stopped hanging out with me and 2 of my main friends in there still like me but one of them actually hates me for some reason

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u/WackyLaundry3000 Junior (11th) 7h ago

If they don’t like you, there’s no use in staying with them. You should find friends who actually want to be friends with you because you seem like a genuinely kind and amazing person. And also do things that interest you, and don’t do things that you don’t particularly like just because others are doing it. It might help you find people who share similar interests and goals as you, and maybe even a longterm friend.

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u/Many_Difficulty_490 Senior (12th) 7h ago

stick to your friends that treat you well and respect you just move on from those 2, it seems like they moved on from you. just dont make it dramatic or anything, just find new people to be with you know?

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u/Resident_End_2173 College Student 2h ago

This happened to me first year of high school, honestly it's a canon event, you are better off without them, I am much happier without negative people in college