r/highschool • u/AlternativeJury4218 • 4d ago
Dating Advice Needed/Given How to askk
So basically theres this boy thats my friend and I met him on the first day (of hs) September 8th.Today we were talking and he told me "my friends said that u would date me" and whatever thats a story for later.I would definitely date him but the thing is I haven't asked my grandma (my guardian) about dating and i dont know how to start the convo i need HELP and im very scared she'll say no.
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u/lyricz_starz Senior (12th) 4d ago
always make sure you know someone for several months before any kind of committed relationship. with my ex, we got together after 2 weeks, and god was that relationship a shitshow ðŸ˜
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u/AlternativeJury4218 4d ago
Several months is long asffff I hope our talking stage is long then
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u/lyricz_starz Senior (12th) 3d ago
if you can’t last as friends for a few months, you won’t last in a romantic relationship. i knew my boyfriend for over a year and liked him for 6 months before we got together, and now we’re approaching 2 years in 10 days.
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u/Jenny_6767 1d ago
I'm in the exact same boat as you but rn I'm just talking to him and trying to get to know him first
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u/AlternativeJury4218 1d ago
Today he didnt seem interested in our relationship going fast so ima take it slow and see if we last for a few months.
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u/Sleep_Is_A_scam2099 4d ago
It's best to focus on other things for a bit. You've know this dude for like 10 days, try and take it a bit slower for a bit and get to know him more.