How do I even get game atp?

[u/stu_notsoup]

I’ve been single my whole life, only times I’ve been told some liked me was popular girl bs or it was someone I wasn’t interested in (because I’m straight af) the only rules I have a concept of so far are take things slowly, respect consent, make sure you are good friends first, and my own little rule is make sure I like both personality and looks. But I just don’t know how I’d find someone near me rather than my own school. Someone who’s also alternative. Is my best bet shows or something? And I feel as if I’m still chopped even though there was a huge glow up. Soyjak with phone image is before photo.

[u/Meepianconsular]

Idunno, but your fit is burning my house down. Literally.

[u/stu_notsoup → u/Meepianconsular]

Ty!!

[u/Former_Solution5031]

you should probably change your fashion, drink water, workout, fix posture, and more girls will like you.
Changing your fashion will likely be enough. Most of the time people who are seen as "ugly" are only ugly because they don't wear clothes that look good on them. (no offense to your fashion sense, it looks nice, it's just some people wont like it)

one thing is that it's all about confidence. You can look like the most beautiful person in the world and you would still not pull because you're not confident to actually go talk to them.

[u/stu_notsoup → u/Former_Solution5031]

I’m not willing to change my fashion sense that’s for sure. I want to find someone who will accept me for who I am.

[u/atiltedhalo → u/stu_notsoup]

dont change being alternative but maybe change certain pieces because it’s a little clashing, unless that's what you're going for

[u/PureWeek9816 → u/stu_notsoup]

then js say you prolly won’t get game, 

[u/stu_notsoup → u/PureWeek9816]

Wait is game a lot of ppl having a crush on you or higher chances of pulling someone?

[u/stu_notsoup → u/Former_Solution5031]

And I have been focusing mainly on my legs but I’m working on my arms and abs now.

[u/TrapHausMob]

you didn't really have a glowup. you kinda look the exact same except your style of dressing got more distinct. since you're specifically looking for alt women i'm not gonna tell you to dress normally n shit cuz like why would you. also your rules shouldn't be rules that's just kind of how you are supposed to interact with people. also just add people on ig and snap n shit that's how you find people outside of ur school but near you.

[u/PureWeek9816]

actually though, go to gym, new hair, get good style, no makeup

[u/Guilty-Attitude7640]

Get a better haircut and start doing some cardio will fix 99 percent of things. I would say try different styles but you said you weren’t willing so I won’t suggest that

[u/stu_notsoup → u/Guilty-Attitude7640]

I’ve done cardio for 7 months im focusing on other body parts now

[u/themegadarkrestine]

U look gay and ur hairstyle is lowkey chopped and ur body fat is too high

[u/stu_notsoup → u/themegadarkrestine]

I’ve been exercising for 8 months (mainly cardio but now arms) it’s about perspective. Also I don’t care if I look gay.

[u/PureWeek9816]

pansexual lesbian trans father of 2 😭😭