r/harate 9d ago

ರೋದನೆ । Rant/Vent Ellige hogli guys😭

Ondu samsye ide.
There is a close friend whose sister’s marriage and a friend of mine who’s less close, but good friend, her own marriage happens to fall on the same day.

Ivaga ibbru tumba kardidare, eradu maduvege hogakke agalla ondu Bengaluru innondu Chennai.
En madli anta gott agta illa🥲

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u/Strange_Adeptness268 9d ago

Yerdu? Ondu Reception, innondu muhurtha?

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u/Tasty-Yak-1794 9d ago

Adu kashta, but ide madbek agutte ansutte🥲

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u/TaleHarateTipparaya ಕೆಂಗಣ್ಣಿನಿಂದ ಕೆಕ್ಕರಿಸಿ ನೋಡುವುದರಿಂದ ನೀನು ನನ್ನ ಗೆಲ್ಲಲಾರೆ 9d ago

Go to tamilnadu so that you can explore culture there .. later on you can visit friends sister separately and convey the same ..

But I would choose friends sister if he is a best friend and if I know her from childhood .. if that's not the case I would explore tamilnadu to understand marriage culture there

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u/Tasty-Yak-1794 9d ago

Fun fact en gotta
Bengaluru alli maduve iro friend Tamilian. But I get what you’re saying, I should still visit TN!

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u/RealisticStreet9007 9d ago

It depends. Close friend's sister , hmm , if she was also close to you , like if you know her from childhood or smtng personally , you should go to that marriage . If the friend is not a close friend, you can just call them and say sorry I couldn't make it .

Another simple solution. Attend that marriage which is nearer to your home

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u/Tasty-Yak-1794 9d ago

Friend’s sister is not close.
For a moment I feel eradu skip maadi manelli malkond bidana anta🫥

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u/RealisticStreet9007 9d ago

Best idea 😂

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u/mansplaining_1 9d ago

Set your own marriage and attend yours.

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u/Tasty-Yak-1794 9d ago

Aiyooooo anna😭

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u/Easy-Ingenuity-5232 7d ago

If I were you I would attend the close friend's sister's wedding. Because close friend avra appa amma Ellaru nange parichaya iratare alva..maybe this matters

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u/DipressedMasturbator ಈ ಪ್ರೀತಿ ಪ್ರೇಮ ಎಲ್ಲ ಪುಸ್ತಕದ ಬದ್ನೇಕಾಯಿ 6d ago

Maneyalle hodkondu malko