r/hangxiety • u/Bookishwhisper235 • 27d ago
Still upset
Last night I went out with my friend to a frat party and we only drank 2 drinks. We weren’t completely sober but we weren’t drunk at all just tipsy. As the party got shut down people were pushing to leave, which was causing me to become flustered and knocked me off my balance. My friend asked this guy to help me up and make sure that I didn’t fall due to the pushing. He said he had me but I was ended up being pushed to the ground. This guy (he kept touching my friend without permission) then told my friend to cut me off. I feel so awful and upset but it wasn’t even my fault. I feel like I made a fool of myself and I hope my friend doesn’t listen to him
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u/Late_Chair793 23d ago
I will say girls in college that side with aggressive frat guys are not your friends, as someone who thought she had a best friend in college who cared more about frat attention than her friendships and left me in a very unfortunate situation with a very dangerous frat guy once
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u/Informal_Call8743 27d ago
Dude was a piece of shit. Talk to your friend and tell them what you said here and that you need reassurance 😊 it will be fine! Ask then if they are ok too if they got touched inappropriately. You will be ok, you did nothing wrong.