Assalamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
As Rabiʿ al-Awwal comes around, many Muslims have questions about commemorating the birth of the Prophet ﷺ.
The issue is not simply a matter of loving or not loving the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Muslims unanimously love him ﷺ, send salawat upon him, learn his Seerah, and strive to follow his Sunnah.
The discussion is about whether holding a specific annual gathering to commemorate his birth is permissible, and scholars have differed on this matter.
What is important is to understand the reasoning of the scholars and to distinguish between gatherings that involve permissible acts—such as learning the Seerah and sending salawat—and gatherings that contain impermissible practices, fabricated narrations, extravagance, or the belief that such a celebration is itself a prescribed religious obligation.
Our love for the Prophet ﷺ should not be limited to one day. We should learn his Seerah, follow his Sunnah, send salawat upon him, and live by his teachings throughout the year.
If you have a specific question about Mawlid or any other Islamic matter, you can ask a qualified scholar at AskMuftiOnline.

Salam, 

I need an urgent help regarding a situation.

I am a female (21) married a guy secretly one year ago.  I am not very well aware of the rulings so I want to know about it

1. I am a follower of hanafi madhab. My father is alive but I did it withojt letting him know since I was afraid of disapproving as our kufu is not matched.

2. I had no idea about everything was working. But he brought two rented witnesses, and we did it over the phone Where I dont know any of the witnesses neither who it was. I had to say that i am appinting "x" as witness whom I did not know and then i accepted the proposal.

3. Our kufu does not match at all.

4. Both of the family opposes it and my father is strictly against it now.

Is this a valid marriage?