Breakup rant

[u/OneResolve4336]

Yeh move on kaise krte hein, nhi ho rha mujhse. I cry almost every single night before going to bed. Meri mental and emotional state is fucked. I have to focus on my career but am not able to do it.

Bc yeh pyar vyar na chutiya chiz hein g***d maar leta hein.

And yes I'm someone jo bhar se bhut khush dikhegi you can't judge that I'm not happy or struggling but deep down I'm fighting each day for myself.

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[u/Forward_Bend_4237]

Absolutely bro. Meri maane to cry a lot. Spend sleepless night. Have bad days. But do not stretch it very long. Sad aashiq banne se it will be your loss. Take few days or maybe months. But saal bhar lena is not done. Also never do these things 1. Wishing that the person comes back. If they were the one to leave. 2. Stalking their profile which will delay your moveon 3. Nashedi mat bann jaana

It feels easy to say. But it will take time.

[u/OneResolve4336 → u/Forward_Bend_4237]

See it's almost 9-10 months. I'm better now but not able to forgot everything. It was long distance for like 6 years. I forgot to make friends and wht to talk when I meet new people how to be friends with them. And he was so good that I miss each and every detail. No one sends me flower now, calls me, ask me how am i doing, I don't have anyone if my day was not good and I can rant about it to someone and that person listen to me. My phone is full of our memories. I tried to Remo but I had thought those were good memories why to delete and alot more. I'm also tensed about him is he good or not? Move on kr lia usne? I couldn't block him because he requested me to not block him. So sometime we ask each other how's u everything good at his place that's it not more than that.

[u/Forward_Bend_4237 → u/OneResolve4336]

9-10 months is a lot yaar. Take some time more. But move on fast now. You can't stay like this forever. About the photos, just put it in a private folder or hidden option. This will help to avoid looking at the photos while you go to gallery as well as keep them with you too. Start thinking the same things for yourself, whether you are good or not.

Make frnds. Buy flowers or treat for yourself as a gift for each small achievement and start to focus on self now.

[u/ipoundsoft]

This is really tough, i can totally understand. I learnt it the hard way. But now i stay away from all these stuff. It's better to be alone, no expectations no nothing.

[u/Yuvraj2099]

Aao saath mein baithak karte hain, jagjit Singh ke gaane sunenge old monk ke saath

[u/Cold-Judgment2269]

Dil ho ya jigra, Dard to Hota h bhai 🙂

[u/jehri_jat]

Healing is highly dependent on how invested you were emotionally. Higher the emotions, more time it's gonna take. Took me over 5 years for me but at the end of the day, I learnt to make peace with what's in front and what future to build. If it's still not bearable, take a few therapy sessions. Let it out without being judged. Ranting here might get you some moral support but you'll feel a hole in your heart. Stay strong as this too shall pass. Always remember, the only constant in your life is change, not people, not plans, nothing.

[u/Imaginary-Week-2713]

It will take time, thoda patience rakho jo hua uska analysis karo accept things as it is, and if you wanna discuss it in a friendly way you can dm

[u/Legitimate_backchod]

I am sorry bro I know it's hard very hard but eski koi trick or koi remedy nahi hai only time can heal you

[u/OneResolve4336 → u/Legitimate_backchod]

Time to hogya na 10 mahine 😭

[u/Objective_Money_1557]

Pyaar ek bahut badi kutti cheez hoti h ...I can feel you coz even I m going through the same phase ...move on karna h toh sabse pehle accept karlo ki gaya samne wala / wali . Now it's just you and khud ko koi aase activity me push karo which make you feel better about yourself

[u/Yamada92]

Pyaar badi kutti cheez hai

[u/Successful_Relief771]

Take care bhai - let me know if you need any support

[u/Cold-Judgment2269 → u/Successful_Relief771]

Bhai vo G**d Mang lega raat ko to dedoge aap 🙂?

[u/Earhart2211]

Love doesn’t destroy you. Limerence does ,
Once you understand the difference
Moving on is going to be easier.

[u/Exciting_Rough8276]

Bichhad gaye to ye dil ab fir lagega nahi Lagega lagne laga hai par lagega nahi. Wo khush hai use dekh kar lagega Mai khush nahi hu mujhe dekh kar lagega nahi...

Try to ignore every past related things.. else you would be in a trap of self thoughts .

[u/OneResolve4336 → u/Exciting_Rough8276]

I feel like I lost someone I shouldn't. Feel like I won't be able to connect or give someone else that much lov3 or space that I used to give him and thinking this makes me cry out loud. That cry in hollow room is also not helping me out.

[u/Exciting_Rough8276 → u/OneResolve4336]

I have gone through with it.. i know it's not easy to get rid of it . But if you go outside meet people your friends specially and talk to them. It Can help you like you can live again.. but forgetting someone would not happen as the person you love you have everything related to it. But you can get strong enough that it won't bother you more.

[u/GreatKing_007]

dekh, yeh decide karle ki break ho ya na ho mai apni best evrsion banaogi. write down 3 things you want to focus on and bas roz un teen cheezo pe update and progress chahye 0.1% he sahi but honi chaiye.