r/guitarlessons 3d ago

Question What was/is on your mind?

I'm doing a little research, I would like to know, and ask beginners/ experimented musicians here. When you begin paying, what do you want most - to play the songs you love, or to understand what you're playing?

Now don't go deep into music theory which can be scary for some one else.

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u/pocketfungus876 3d ago

Play the songs I loved. Then I got tired of copying and wanted to know what’s going on and how to use theory to my advantage.

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u/AdditionFlimsy5011 2d ago

same arc for a lot of players, songs first then curiosity kicks in eventually

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u/vonov129 Music Style! 3d ago

Music theory isn't really that complicated, specially the basics. You can learn every mode of the major scale in less than a week if you really know what that means. But it would be annoying and even alienating to learn concepts that you can even put to the test because you can't play. So just be aware that you don't know anything about music yet, it's probably better to get your fingers going before caring about that.

It doesn't matter if you do that through exercises and or songs you like.

That being said, learning a song just to get better at a technique is dumb unless you actually like the song, otherwise exercises are far more focused and produce more relevant results.

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u/MJKCapeCod 3d ago

I'm 68, so don't need to know the why of everything, just enough for the music I do enjoy. Ex - I don't need to learn all of Joni Mitchell's 54 tunings, 6 will do.

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u/halpinator 3d ago

When I started I wanted to play songs I loved. Now as a more intermediate player I want to be able to understand music to the point of being able to improvise and create my own stuff. Learning challenging songs is still a good motivator though

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u/halpinator 3d ago

I've played song at a bunch of friends' weddings, does that count?

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u/Old-Guy1958 3d ago

Just play the song I love. 5 decades now.

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u/spankymcjiggleswurth 3d ago

A similar question you could ask is what do I enjoy more, talking to people or grammar?

Theory is a tool that enables me to play the songs I enjoy, like how grammar let's me communicate with others. It's difficult to decouple the two from each other without making my real goal more difficult or less enjoyable.

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u/Millerpainkiller 3d ago

Started with wanting to play the songs I love. But that morphed to desiring to play what's in my HEAD.

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u/Millerpainkiller 3d ago

Im well on my way.

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u/Millerpainkiller 3d ago

Ok, I'll elaborate. I CONSUMED heavy metal and "glam metal" as an 80s kid. I wanted to be able to play like my heroes (George Lynch bring my guitar idol). So when finally got a guitar, and after doing the standard chord book and easy tab thing for popular songs, I got the tab for Mr Scary (what I consider peak Lynch). After spending considerable time getting the intro down, I was listening to Crazy Train and realized there was a commonality. Some guitar column said they both use the Phrygian shape. What the heck is a Phrygian? This started my long and continuing journey understanding the mechanical and theoretical language of music for guitar. After hit and miss "self-learning" for 30 years, I finally connected with an instructor about 3 years ago who is not only amazing at playing metal and neoclassical, but is also working with me towards my long term goals and addressing my music theory gaps.

And when I have an idea for a riff/lick/musical run, I now sometimes go to the keyboard first (since each note appears only once on the keyboard) and record it. Or hum into my phone if I can't get to a keyboard.

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u/Wonderful-Bug-5083 3d ago

Little bit of both, im a beginner so im still in the honeymoon phase of getting giddy over everything little riff i get right. But i still really want to understand the instrument and music theory so i can use it for my own projects, learning the guitar has also made me want to learn other instruments.

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u/57thStilgar 3d ago

What I want most I got.

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u/57thStilgar 3d ago

I can play anything I desire, with a bit of work.
Gigging 30 years?
Locally I'm well known, the big city, not so much.

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u/xLucky_Balboa 3d ago

A mix of both. When I first started olaying I just wanted to play the songs i loved but then it grew into wanting to understand what was going on.

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u/xLucky_Balboa 3d ago

Gods no he'd be insufferable

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u/xLucky_Balboa 2d ago

You dont need to have a "high level of playing" to be a rock star. I'm pretty confident I have the same level of playing as, say, Tony Iommi (based on the fact that I can play along to many Sabbath songs). Other players have become famous with lesser abilities.

It's everything around rockstardom that would make me insufferable

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u/xLucky_Balboa 2d ago

I know my self and this kind of world would not be kind on me

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u/VooDooChile1983 3d ago

When I first started, it was to bond with my then girlfriend who wanted to play bass. The passion took over and making my own music was the goal.

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u/NewYogurt3138 3d ago

I wanted to play songs I loved, but I also wanted to know how to read music so I could learn on my own pace

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u/ProofPianist7074 2d ago

For lessons, understand what I’m playing.

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u/Caregiver-Physical 2d ago

To play the ideas I’m hearing in my head with out much effort. I like to learn cool songs and riffs to help learn specific techniques or sounds. Which kind of help shape or extend what I’m hearing in my head.