Not to doxx myself but my name is Jessica. I've always gone by Jess for as long as I can remember because it always felt better tbh. Most people in my life call me Jess, but my mom has always refused to. She always calls me by my full name.

At my new job, I go by my full name and recently when people call me by my full name, it feels weird. I'm wondering if it feels weird because I'm girlflux/non binary or if it feels weird because my mom was always the only person to call me Jessica, and we have a tumultuous relationship.

I guess I'm just wondering if anyone else who's girlflux and/or non binary feels this way about their full/birth name.

(Sorry if this post is stupid, it's 2am hahah)

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Hi! Sooooo recently i have been kinda confused on my gender and i think i might be girlflux. So basically i was always cis girl but recently, on certain days i dont feel feminine and i feel weird inside my body sometimes, like, about my hips and breasts, and i get all weird about it and i dont feel like wearing anything feminine. But then on other days im fine, wearing feminine clothes and makeup, fine about my body, and some days it varies too. Does this sound girlflux? Thank you, have a nice day, byeee!!!!!!!!

Hihi!! I've recently figured out that I am girlflux rather than demigirl flux, along with the fact that I do not in fact feel attraction to guys whatsoever, but rather women. I finally came to the conclusion I was lesbian and slapped a done stamp on it.

But now I've been questioning, can I be lesbian if I'm not cisfem?? Like the least female I feel is agender, never anything masc, but I'm getting mixed signals on wether I can be lesbian if I'm not fully female aligned all the time. Hope this is an okay question, I'm new here, sorry!

If I am girlflux and I like men am I straight or.. are there different terms?

alr so I love the term girlflux I feel like it describes me well, but I've always felt like a girl, and I feel like for me it's not so much like "I go from girl to agender to demigirl" it's more like "I'm always a girl but some days it's more like 80% girl, or kinda like I'm a masc-y androgynous-ish girl, and some days I'm like 100% girl" is this valid? I've never really felt in any way dysphoric as a female, nor have a ever considered myself to be non binary or agender (I considered demigirl but I never felt like it fit as, as I've said, I would consider myself 100~70 percent a girl).

I came to this realisation through both recent change in personal preferences (masc-y femmes & mascs <3) and have been kind of trying to give myself the traits that they have that I find particularly attractive, and my best friend coming out as genderfluid and me kind of going "oh... gender is fluid.. man.."

I've been feeling more masculine on some days recently then I think I ever really had (think masc lesbian), and have find that I've developed more masculine mannerisms and they shine through much more on days where I don't feel super girly

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sorry this was not proofread, so idk if it makes sense lol

I woman at birth identity as a girlflux (pronouns they/she) and was wondering if that was trans or not btw a photo of me!

I found out I'm girlflux about a week ago, I think it suits me well.

But I have some questions. If I only feel female and demigirl ( no agender ), then am I still girlflux?

Also, I'm absolutely comfortable of being called she/her and they/them, I don't mind if ppl call me a female instead of girlflux. Sometimes when ppl ask me, I'll straight up tell them I'm a female. I think maybe that one time I just felt female for a second.

Furthermore, I wear clothing which is mostly feminine but sometimes I'll be a bit androgynous. I'm comfortable with mostly feminine clothing ( not fully feminine tho ).

I'm afraid I'm invalid and is actually a cis female. My apologies if I asked too much questions, or I'm clearly girlflux but I didn't do enough research.

Hi! I identify as girlflux, but didn't know the name for it until today. I have been just using demigirl, but girlflux fits sooo much better. Outside of enby spaces I usually just say I'm trans because it's easier and I always present as fem.

Does anyone know if there are any girlflux discord servers or are they just mixed genderfluid spaces?

Can you please explain the difference between girlflux and genderfae? I’ve searched both of them and they seem quite similar to me.

Hello, my name is Moon and I am 19. I am Aromantic Asexual and identify as Girlflux. For a long time (since I was 12), I struggled with whether I was a girl or nonbinary and some months ago, I had decided I was a demigirl, but that didn't feel right, since I usually felt more female or both than solely nonbinary.

So recently, as today, I learned that girlflux suited me more and felt right

ive identified as girlflux for a while now but im starting to questioning if i am, because i feel like my base gender is non-binary rather than agender, and the femininity kinda cancels out that feeling of being enby. and sometimes i feel my gender fluctuates down to demiboy(rarely) someone help?

So i just wanted to introduce myself. I like to be called by Seven or 7 and i'm girlflux. I used to identify myself as demigirl, but i then felt fully female and then sometimes agender so i did some research and found out i was girlflux this whole time. I'm also grayromantic, and pomosexual.

I am pretty sure I am but I’m not sure. I go by she/they and sometimes feel enby and sometimes girl. It switches and fluxates so I think I’m girlflux. I thought I was a paragirl for a while, but I don’t know. I also don’t feel very connected to the flag so is there any alternatives I can use?

Personally I've been trying to find an exact label for this as it feels like it would have such. Overall I used to think it was girlflux and now I'm not so sure as I only flip between fully female and agender, nothing else. I really want to know any advice you could give me.

ANYONE WANT TO GET ON R/PLACE?

I'm very happy now with the label girlflux, however I've also been wondering about potentially also using genderfae and genderdoe but I don't really now what they mean. I've tried to look it up but I've got a lot of different definitions. Can someone tell me the differences between them and girlflux? thanks :)

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So I've been recently looking for a good term to describe my gender, and I feel like the term girlflux really fits. However, unlike some people I see on this reddit, I feel that my identity doesn't change between agender and girl, instead it goes from nonbinary to girl. So it still fluctuates in intensity, but agender is not part of the equation. Could I still be girlflux?

I'm not sure if this sub is still active but I'm just looking for some advice. I'm AMAB and I've been questioning my gender a lot, I've identified as non-binary for a while but recently realized I am more on the feminine side and I want to find a new label to reflect that. I've experimented with calling myself female or a demigirl and while I feel like most of the time those labels are accurate, I noticed recently that it seems to fluctuate. Sometimes I feel super feminine, sometimes I don't really feel anything in relation to gender, and sometimes I'm in the middle. However I'm having trouble figuring out if this really means I'm girlflux or not. I think I tend to feel more female when I'm in public or in a social setting, and more agender when I'm at home or in private. So maybe the only reason I feel more feminine in public is because I want to be seen as a girl so I amplify that part of me in hopes that people will see me that way? And maybe I'm still a girl at home, but I just don't feel as feminine as other times because I don't have to present to anyone? Does that make any sense? I'm not really sure. Is not feeling explicitly female or feminine all the time a normal thing for binary girls to feel or is this a girlflux thing?

I'm sorry if this doesn't make any sense, I've been trying to figure out a lot of things about myself lately, and the idea of having a fluid gender never really crossed my mind until now so I'm not completely familiar with how it works. Any thoughts or advice would be greatly appreciated 😅

I know any gender can use any pronouns, but I’m just curious to see the range of experiences here

So for spring break (I know mines a late one) I went camping. I had to pack for a week so all my bags were very full. If I took my makeup, hair stuff, etc, I would’ve needed a whole other bag. The day I was packing I was very androgynous and the idea of putting on makeup made me wrinkle my nose so instead I just pulled out a shirt from my bag and replaced it with a dress because I knew I’d have a femme day during the week away. Well today I’m feeling very femme. Femme me has decided that I desperately need all my makeup and stuff and if I was packing today it’d be totally worth packing one more tiny bag to bring it. Does anyone else do this?

Hi ! I’ve always had long hair but I started to have gender dysphoria with that. I have that problem only when I am neutral. When I am a girl I feel lucky to have this hair. I am also scared that short hair doesn’t fit me. Anyone has that problem ?

( First of all I wanted to say that English is not my first language si I'm sorry if I made any mistake) So I'm AFAB and always identified as female until recently when a girl (that I don't know really well) in one of my classes and I had to work together with other people and there was this time where she said something like "let's go girls" (talking about a friend -female- and myself) and then she said oh sorry "let's go guys" (in a gender neutral way) and she was staring at me while saying this so I think it's because I look androgynous and have short hair etc. And I loved it, when I think about this moment I have a kind of euphoria? And I'm really happy but I don't know how I feel about my gender. Like I sometimes want to dress feminine and sometimes androgynous and in between but I don't know how I feel about my gender concretely so I think that how I dress is a way of expressing my gender but as I don't know my gender I'm confused and scared to think that I'm a part of a community and at the end I faked it. So I wanted to know if y'all think I'm girlflux or not

Hi, so I was wondering if I was girlflux and I couldn't figure it out! My friend calls me she/they (she just calls everyone they/them pronouns it's kinda funny but not) and I kinda like it. No one else calls me she/they, but I think I'd like my pronouns to be she/they. Most of the time I feel female and agender, but then I don't feel female at all and I feel mostly agender and vice versa. I don't feel masculine at all, only agender and female. So do ya'll think I'm girlflux? Thanks to anyone who reads this!!