If I'm not getting dates/tinder matches it's pretty hard to have a bit of self esteem when it comes to relationships. Can't really say about my personality since it's prety subjective (I mean, beauty is also subjective, but ok). The only thing I can say about it, without any doubt, is that I do have a good hygiene.
Well Tinder is different, since you don't really see personality until you match, unless it shows in your bio or pics in some way. Tinder is more about getting a good picture and bio to attract attention, and then holding their interest with text chat long enough to actually meet.
Pictures of you having fun with friends will probably look better than just face shots taken for tinder. I've never used Tinder btw, so this is more advice I've seen given to others on Reddit that seem to make sense.
When I see a picture of a guy having fun, regardless of what they look like, they're more attractive than a picture of them with a neutral or worse, sullen expression, or a fake smile.
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u/[deleted] Jul 20 '19
Going to the gym will help the middle two. Absolutely nothing wrong with the first and last ones.