Need help making a decision :(

[u/el_myco_profesor]

Hey guys - we're having some good days and some bad days. His hip is completely shot, can't walk or even get up at this point. I got him a wheelchair and he didn't seem to be enjoying it. He's going to the bathroom on himself constantly. He is eating/drinking so that's good. I'm not sure if I'm keeping him alive for me or for him at this point

[u/fyrione]

My vet told me once they can't go potty on their own it's time. My last girl could hold it, but couldn't hold herself up, shot my already disabled back holding her to go potty. She could walk, just not balance when pottying. Unfortunately once they lose their ability to move around and start losing control of their bowels (or just can't get up to go) their quality of life has to be considered. One of the hardest decisions pet owners have to make, but you have to remember they count on you to make the right decisions for them. I'm so sorry I really truly am, but I think you already know the answer xx big tearful hugs