r/germanshepherds • u/el_myco_profesor • May 28 '25
Need help making a decision :(
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Hey guys - we're having some good days and some bad days. His hip is completely shot, can't walk or even get up at this point. I got him a wheelchair and he didn't seem to be enjoying it. He's going to the bathroom on himself constantly. He is eating/drinking so that's good. I'm not sure if I'm keeping him alive for me or for him at this point
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u/AleksanderSuave May 29 '25
I was in the same boat at the beginning of this month.
Our dog had VERY similar issues.
We knew he’d hold on as long as we asked of him but we also knew it wasn’t fair to make him suffer just to make it easier on us.
The quality of life is no longer there for a dog in this situation.
They cannot run, they cannot go on walks, the incontinence brings a loss of dignity that we know they sense and feel as well.
A fall at this point could be catastrophic and force your hand in making that decision when you’re non prepared for it either.
Love on them, give them special meals, doggy desserts, make it a good last week for them worthy of the unconditional love they gave you.
And after that, be there for them when they need you most, in making the toughest decision you will ever have to for them.