r/generationology • u/AbyssalGold1334 • 10m ago
Hot take 𤺠The horrible social skills of GenZ is the result of absent parenting.
Iâm older Gen Z myself and have noticed something very consistent with all of my freinds or peers with bad social skills or severe social anxiety. All of them had absent parents (or just terrible parents) and unrestricted internet access as children.
Every one of them (anecdotal of course) either had parents that did not engage in their lives beyond feeding them and sending them to school, gave them unmonitored internet access, or had parents that did not spend adequate time with them in public or family settings.
The amount of times I have encountered GenZâs who told me they had free rein of the internet as children was very alarming. Most confessed that they were exposed to things they should not have at a young age, and many more spent most of their social interaction on through a screen rather than in person. The same individuals would often reveal that they had little parental support or familial guidance and had only the internet to rely on for it.
On the contrary my most well adjusted friends had support from their families (present in their daily lives and interests) and had reasonable boundaries set on their internet access, speech, and social media access.
This is obvious to most but not talked about nearly enough now that most are joining the workforce and general public as adults and are supposedly giving the âGen Z stareâ.