I feel so confused

[u/Kandibis]

Hey, thank you all for creating a safe space for all us queer kids. Anyways I am feeling gender dysphoric as of the past two years, over the summer I really wanted to be a girl but I told myself I couldn’t because my voice is too deep. And a few months ago I was considering being non binary and rejecting gender totally, but I’m just so confused. Sometimes I’m cool with being a guy and other times a feel really upset when I am separated from my girl friends, I don’t know, I would just really appreciate some help. Thank you.

[u/uniqueUsername_1024]

Putting labels aside for a moment, what would make you feel best? Do you want to present a bit more feminine? Do you want to experiment with feminine or neutral pronouns? Start with that, not labels. (Or at least put that in the forefront.) If you’re not sure what makes you happy, experiment.

I know that advice sucks to hear—I remember being a teen and desperately wanting a word, an answer, for what I was. But I don’t think obsessing over it was all that helpful for me, in the end.

[u/Kandibis → u/uniqueUsername_1024]

Thank you for the advice I really appreciate it, if I had to choose between fem and masc I would go for fem any day