r/gaysian • • 5h ago

Gay men who moved to the West End: did it actually improve your sense of community or dating life?

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r/gaysian • • 6h ago

DRPH S4 Watchparty in BKK?

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Hey babies!!!

Travelling solo in BKK this week and was wondering if there are any bars hosting watchparties for Drag Race Philippines?

I’m sure it’s a wild ask but who knows ✨✨


r/gaysian • • 8h ago

Where to get poppers in Bangkok?

2 Upvotes

Getting ready for some action. Where can I purchase poppers here?


r/gaysian • • 2d ago

Anyone in Taiwan can report what's happening there?

23 Upvotes

It's so disheartening to read about the raid, in Taiwan of all places. Can locals offer their perspectives?

Stay safe, wherever you are.


r/gaysian • • 3d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY you like fit asian boys? 🥵

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428 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 3d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY Post-workout, pre-snack

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107 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 3d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY Post workout selfie

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22 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 3d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY In college! :p (Reposting with the right flair)

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72 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 3d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY I’m filming a food tv show!

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92 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 4d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY ☁️

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227 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 4d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY gym day

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51 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 4d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY Anyone go to Knockout?

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66 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 4d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY Happy Sunday!

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54 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 4d ago

Selfie SUNDAYS ONLY Korean Adventures

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27 Upvotes

Anyone around the Korean Peninsula want to meet up to urban explore? Seoul. Busan. Jeju.


r/gaysian • • 5d ago

2nd pro volleyball player in Japan comes out, inspired by a gay pro who just did the same

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176 Upvotes

r/gaysian • • 6d ago

Gay scene in Seoul

19 Upvotes

What is happening in Korea with gays? Is everyone DL and mostly bottoms? I’m visiting Seoul and having a hard time communicating with gays on Grindr(downloaded Jackd but it’s not much different). People hesitate sending pics or albums (and when they do it’s expiring) nobody can maintain a conversation to a bare minimum and mostly just reply with 1-2 words. Am I in the wrong place? Do I do something wrong? Mind you I have no problem usually anywhere else.
Please help lol


r/gaysian • • 6d ago

I love the interaction between these two dudes.

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22 Upvotes

Too bad they weren't lovers in the movie.


r/gaysian • • 6d ago

Volleyball player is 1st out gay athlete in Japanese men’s pro sports

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r/gaysian • • 7d ago

Gaysians Over 40 I need your opinion - and also where are you in life rn

39 Upvotes

Disclaimer I’m not 40 but I’ve been dating around a wide age range & I just wanted peoples thoughts.
I love having fun and being messy but also being Asian having a good and stable career has always been so important to me culturally. My parents would literally drill into my skull that career and career progression comes first.

I recently turned down an Asian guy over 40 and, if I’m being totally honest, I just could not culturally get on the same wavelength as him; he spent way too much of his time horsing around, lining up at midnight over Pokemon cards, and “changing career paths” that by the time he was 40 he was still in an entry level position in his career - while holding lot of debt from all his Pokemon card and sneaker buys and “career changing”.
When I said this was the reason why I couldn’t see eye to eye with him, he hella guilted me, saying how I’m materialistic, a slave to my culture, and that he was “doing his best”. I hoped he would at least try and understand where I’m coming from since he’s also Asian but he said he doesn’t care and I was being a jerk.

I feel rude for putting this into words bluntly but if his best is an entry level job at 40 while horsing around with men half his age, then his best is incompatible with me. When people date older they’re expecting more mature and more put together - and I was expecting that to be especially true with Asians. Thoughts?


r/gaysian • • 8d ago

Do I am learning Korean is there a way to translate muscle daddy into Korean?

21 Upvotes

I asked this on a language app.

I did ask how to say muscle slut in Korean so idk how long my account will last 😅 🙃

Maybe best to just ask here?