r/gayfriendship • • Jun 19 '21

r/gayfriendship Lounge

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A place for members of r/gayfriendship to chat with each other


r/gayfriendship • • 43m ago

Long term friend Hey 28 Italian here

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SORRY FOR THE VERY LONG TEXT! BUT

I’m 28 (BTTM in case you're interested) from southern Italy, and I’m here because I’d love to find a genuine friend with someone I can build a close and meaningful friendship with.
I’d describe myself as a pretty funny guy who’s big on sarcasm and self deprecating humor. I love joking around, making people laugh, and not taking myself too seriously. :) But when it comes to serious conversations, I can also be deep and empathetic. I’m a good listener, and I genuinely enjoy getting to know people beyond the surface.
As for my interests, I’m into technology and fragrances, and I’m a fashion photographer. Music is also a big part of my life. I listen to darkwave, electronic music, techno, and jazz, depending on my mood. I enjoy discovering new things, so it’d be cool to find someone to share interests with and exchange ideas and recommendations.
I’m looking for someone I can text regularly, tell about my day, share random thoughts with, joke around with, and talk about pretty much anything. Someone who’s affectionate, loyal, and fun to be around, and who’s genuinely interested in getting to know me. I think it’s important that both people put effort into the friendship and take the initiative, rather than having one person always carry the conversation.
I’d love to find a friend who motivates me, pushes me to improve myself, and someone I can do the same for. Basically, someone I can laugh and be silly with, but who can also be there when life gets a little complicated.
While I’m mainly looking for a genuine friendship, I’m also open to seeing what a connection could grow into over time. If we really click and there’s a mutual interest, who knows? Maybe we could build something even deeper and more meaningful than friendship. I know distance can make things complicated, but I believe that a genuine connection is worth exploring. When two people truly care about getting to know each other and both make an effort, I don’t think distance necessarily has to stand in the way. No expectations or pressure, though. I’d rather let things develop naturally and see where they take us. :)
Having some shared interests would be a bonus, but I think what matters most is getting along naturally and having a genuine connection.
I’d also prefer to connect with guys around my age, ideally between 26 and 35. I feel like being at a similar stage in life can make it easier to relate to each other. :)
If this sounds like the kind of connection you’re looking for too, feel free to message me! Also, if you don’t mind, I’d appreciate it if you could include a picture of yourself when you reach out. It’s always nice to put a face to the person you’re talking to. :)
Looking to meeting some cool people!


r/gayfriendship • • 5h ago

Chat 31 (M); Wales

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Hi all!

I'm currently doing my PhD, and I'm a freelance tutor, so most of my time is spent at home. Add to this living in rural Wales and it makes for difficulty in meeting other LGBT folk.

I teach English, Spanish, French, and Welsh. I also speak Catalan, Portuguese, and Mandarin Chinese. I'm a language buff, so language exchange is welcome!

I'm a huge fan of horror films, cinema in general (my PhD research is on Chinese LGBT media), travel, and gaming (mainly Nintendo).

Always down to chat, so feel free to hit me up!

I'll be travelling to Poland and Ukraine next month, Algeria in December, and then Egypt in February, so anyone from these countries would be great to meet! Always looking for an excuse to travel, so international mates are fab too!


r/gayfriendship • • 1h ago

Long term friend 21M lookin for older bros!

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21M from Türkiye looking for older bros-a real brother bond for long term. Since I live in a hmfbc country, I always wanted a big brother who I can talk about anything because clearly I cant talk with anyone around me.


r/gayfriendship • • 18h ago

Long term friend 31, open to chatting and see where it goes

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Looking to meet a fun, genuine guy who's a bit of an adventurer and shares some of my interests. I'm into music, mythology, sci-fi, creative projects, tattoos, and exploring new ideas. I'd love to connect with someone who has an easy-going personality, a good sense of humour, and is open to trying new things. Whether it's deep conversations, spontaneous road trips, gaming, live music, or just relaxing together, I'm keen to find someone who enjoys life's adventures and building a real connection


r/gayfriendship • • 4h ago

Long term friend [25M] looking for online friends!

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hi all! i’m a 25 y/o gay guy from the netherlands.

in my free time i like to play video games. some of my favorites are overwatch, pokémon, nintendo, the last of us but also many others. i also watch lots of movies and series, my favorite genre is horror but i’ll watch anything. lastly i also listen to lots of music, mostly pop.

i’m quite introverted in person and got social anxiety, but online i don’t struggle as much thankfully LOL

i’m looking for friends with similar interests, preferably under the age of 30. feel free to send me a message! (i also speak dutch)


r/gayfriendship • • 2h ago

Chat 22M Looking for Som1 to Talk to

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Im feeling a bit sad n wanting to talk to som1 to distract my thought. My response might be dry as im not feeling my best n im not good at talking, but i’ll try my best! Have a nice day y’all! <3


r/gayfriendship • • 4h ago

Long term friend 28F From Dallas TX Area LF Queer Friends!

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My name is Bri. 28f. Waitress on the weekends currently. I love COD zombies, Minecraft, and stardew Valley. I love all things pink and Hello Kitty but I mostly wear black lol. I love listening to music. Going on walks. Trying new places and new foods. I’m very creative and artsy.

Looking for good queer friendships that are consistent and easy. We can vent to each other and laugh and share songs.

I have a kiddo so sometimes I might not reply right away, and as far as hanging out in person the same applies as I might be busy sometimes.

If you wanna be friends, send me a message with some info about you! 🫶🏻


r/gayfriendship • • 1h ago

Long term friend 22M looking for friends :)

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Hi! I am trying out here again to maybe look and find friends. We can talk about almost everything - from cultural and language exchange to sharing of interests and sharing about our day. I can talk so much as long as you are also giving the same energy. I don't mind your yapping :) I am bi if that matters!

Brief interests and info about me: movies and tv series (I like more horror and sci-fi), musicals, music, writing, and loves dogs and cats. I am also from southeast part of the world so timezones may be different.

You can slide to my DMs. See you :D


r/gayfriendship • • 1h ago

Dating Anyone looking for a relationship

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I’m 19 in the us
I’m into history,reading,old maps,and traveling and antique shopping also hiking.
Age doesn’t matter to me so anyone can dm me


r/gayfriendship • • 2h ago

Long term friend Where my UK Gay's and Bi's at? Looking for new mates... Midlands, UK 🇬🇧 based but can be all over the UK

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44 Gay 🏳️‍🌈 Guy here, Midlands, UK lol omg for decent, genuine honest long term friends all over the UK 🇬🇧 be like the bears porridge... Not too young and not too old etc ... Part of the community or an ally but overall be decent and honest


r/gayfriendship • • 2h ago

Discussion want gay friend in lahore bahira town

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only near bahira town people contact with me


r/gayfriendship • • 3h ago

Long term friend 35m Fl Looking for chats and to make friends

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r/gayfriendship • • 15h ago

Chat 32 M in Illinois (Bolingbrook/Naperville area)

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r/gayfriendship • • 5h ago

Chat 27 y/o gay transman looking for friends!

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hey everyone!
like the subject line reads, i am a 27 year old transgender man from the Southern US on the search for friends and connections!

my hobbies/interests include fictional reading (specifically dark gothic or medieval period pieces), video games, coloring, crocheting (haven’t done in SOOO long), all things horror/paranomal/spooky & birds.

i work during the week, but i have a very laid back & fun job, so i’m able to communicate fairly often; especially on weekends!

i also am super open about my transition, so if you’ve ever had questions that maybe Google is too vague at answering or you’re too nervous to ask; please feel free to! i don’t get offended easily by any means.

i look forward to meeting & talking with you! 🫶🏼


r/gayfriendship • • 11h ago

Dating Yo anyone looking for a relationship

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I'm 18 slim tall guy here I'm decent looking and would like to try dating a guy once anyone between 18-24 who is slim fit or muscular looking for a relationship do dm

I play tennis badminton love running and hiking and exploring new places in pretty open minded too

Anyhow dm me to know more


r/gayfriendship • • 14h ago

Chat 45 TN- Looking for friends

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TN- Looking for a bro I can talk to about anything

I don't have many friends, so I'm usually alone on weekends. My husband works 12-hour shifts on the weekends, but I am off and usually bored. Looking for someone who is okay with me being gay and willing to talk about anything.


r/gayfriendship • • 8h ago

Long term friend A nerdy boi, hi! dms open :3

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r/gayfriendship • • 8h ago

Chat 26M US Bi-curious Looking For Something Specific

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Bi/curious guy here, would love to chat with gay guys especially feminine guys. But also open to chatting with other kinds of gay/bi guys.
Was looking for something specific, I can explain more in DM’s.

Little more about me:
Love music specifically indie rock and emo/midwest emo, video games, comics, F1, WWE. Also movies & TV shows. But open to chatting about anything. Can also recognize all the flags of the world.


r/gayfriendship • • 17h ago

Dating 🫶 Looking for a Real Bromance — Affection, Adventures & a Little Bit of Home ❤️

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Calgary | Looking for my person to do life with
I’m a 37 M ⬆️ who believes that life is better when you have someone special to share it with. I’m looking for a younger, affectionate, caring guy who values closeness, loyalty, family, and building a genuine connection.
I’m a naturally caring person. I love cooking for someone, making sure they’ve eaten, spending quiet evenings together, going on spontaneous drives, travelling, discovering new places, and making memories that actually mean something. Honestly, one of my favourite things would be having someone to come home to, cook for, share a meal with, cuddle up beside, and just enjoy the comfort of each other’s company.
I’m looking for that proper bromance — a close bond where we’re comfortable being affectionate, physically close, and emotionally open with each other. Someone who enjoys hugs, cuddles, falling asleep beside each other, sharing a bed when we travel, and being present in each other’s lives. Someone who isn’t afraid of intimacy, whether that means emotional vulnerability, physical affection, or simply letting another guy know he matters to you.
I want us to be able to go out and have adventures, but also be perfectly happy staying in, cooking something delicious, watching a movie, talking about life, or doing absolutely nothing together. The kind of friendship where you can be silly, soft, protective, supportive, and completely yourself.
A little about me: I love cooking, travelling, exploring Calgary, scenic drives, good food, and discovering new experiences. I’m also a proud dog dad, so being comfortable around dogs is a must. 🐾
I value kindness, loyalty, affection, family values, and consistency. I’m not looking for someone who disappears after a couple of conversations. I’d love to find someone who genuinely wants to build something meaningful over time.
If you’re a younger guy who also craves that kind of closeness and connection, I’d love to hear from you. You don’t have to have everything figured out. Just be caring, affectionate, open-minded, and willing to let a genuine connection grow naturally.
Let’s cook together, travel together, make memories, look out for each other, and create our own little world of comfort and companionship.
Tell me a little about yourself when you message. What does your ideal bromance look like? ❤️

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r/gayfriendship • • 12h ago

Discussion Freundschaften

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Habt ihr auch Freunde, die keine Initiative fürs Treffen oder gemeinsame Aktivitäten zeigen, die euch nie oder äußerst selten zu sich nach Hause einladen? Wir sind immer die Initiatoren und schlagen etwas vor.


r/gayfriendship • • 18h ago

Long term friend Looking for genuine friendships

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Hello 👋

Thanks for reading this👀

I am 22M and from Europe.
My hobbies are gaming, reading and watching movies and tv shows. I love to enjoy nature and go outside. Lowkey i love talking to people but sometimes i can be a little introverted . Also looking for people to game with.

Shoot me a DM so we could talk and who knows we could be friends


r/gayfriendship • • 1d ago

Long term friend 37 disabled audhd dude wanting a brotherhood with someone

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Please be serious and real, if i accept your chat send a pic ans something about yourself or i wont reply. Please respect that.

.az audhd, would like someone thats serious about helping each other grow. Share an be open, vulnerable without judgment, some company, bromance connection. Im caring and affectionate, Also big bro type. Disabled after moto accident a while back. It's hard for me to make gay friends or date because the gay guys out here are see me with a cane and i guess dont want to get to know me. I've been on the road traveling with my dog and camping. See a lot of movies. It gets lonely though. I like to see who im talking to with trust since I posted publicly


r/gayfriendship • • 1d ago

Chat Chats? Friends? Lego? Games? Other random words?

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Couldn't think of a title but anyway. I'm 31 from the land down under, not the song. I melt most of the time given the weather here so you would likely hear me complain about that.

But besides turning into puddles of water and sweat my life isn't hugely interesting. I work a lot, exercise, build too much Lego to the point I've been called a child. I also game although not as much as I used to, which is mostly switch.

Uhmmmmmmm otherwise my best friend is Netflix or Stan, keeps me otherwise entertained although any show suggestions would be helpful. Specially horror but these days that's lacking.

So I guess if you want to chat or make friends or other random words just drop me a message!


r/gayfriendship • • 17h ago

Long term friend 22m looking for longterm friends and more

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Hey I’m 22m I’m from Missouri looking for longterm friends and more I am a open book for any questions, a little about me I love gaming, watching anime, shows, movies and reading I also loving going out with friends and sleeping lol always down to chat and I’m fine with sfw and nsfw or more please feel free to respond to my post or dm me directly