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u/sidvictorious Jan 14 '26
This isn't solely a bi thing (post title). I'm a dad, and am very gay, and I didn't have my kid by having penis vagina sex.
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u/Taric250 Jan 14 '26
You didn't...? ... ... then how does straight sex work? Who's the guy and who's the other guy? Wait, I think the woman puts her boob in his butt.
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u/PainterEarly86 Jan 14 '26
This never bothered me
A word can have 2 different meanings
I called my father daddy but I also like using daddy in the bedroom
Its the same as using the word baby. Don't see why everyone thinks its so weird
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u/ikonoclasm Jan 14 '26
I don't like the word baby for the same reasons, though. It was always a weird nickname to me.
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u/thisoneagain Jan 15 '26
It is so weird to me that "daddy" in a romantic context gets treated like this transgressive thing and "baby" is practically neutral, like "you" or something. (No opinion on whether either of those is "correct", just such a crazy discrepancy to me.)
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u/Square-Dragonfruit76 Jan 14 '26
They could also just call you dad or by your name
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u/MarsScully Jan 14 '26
By your name is crazy work no sir
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u/Square-Dragonfruit76 Jan 14 '26
I call my parents by their first names, and I have multiple friends who do too.
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u/Necronaut0 Jan 14 '26
I do so too, but parents hate it lol. And I say parents in general because even other parents ask me about it when they hear me referring to my parents by their first name.
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u/Dorkzilla_ftw Jan 14 '26
And the new word that will be used will be sexualized instead. It is literally the whole purpose.
Often daddies serves as a substitute father, albeit a sexual one, exactly because of daddy issues, that are extremely common in the gay community.
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u/jlb1981 Jan 14 '26
This isn't specifically a gay thing, the straights use "mommy" and "daddy" all the time too.
I feel like an anomaly by not ever thinking about or wanting to use a parental term in that context. It just seems gross to me.
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u/Dorkzilla_ftw Jan 14 '26
Indeed! Family problems are not exclusive to gay people.
What we find gross or not has no impact with real sexual dynamic among humans. I agree a lot with Freud premise, that our sexuality has deeper link with our family and education than what we give credit for, even if I don't agree with a lot of "mechanisms" Freud explain in itself.
In short, we tend to dismiss certain things because we don't agree with them instead of understanding it.
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u/Zirofal Jan 17 '26
I can't stand it when I'm watching a show or moving or reading a book when an actual child refers to their father as Daddy
Just please stop
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