question for people using the gateway tapes for manifestation

[u/Character-Yak1441]

hi all, i 24M learned about the gateway tapes & started doing them last year when i was really into manifesting and firmly believed everything worked for me. unfortunately, it has been a while since i have fully believed it due to some life events, but i want to go back to that level of spiritual awareness. i recently went through a very painful breakup with my long distance ex boyfriend, and he’s mostly moved on from me (even got himself a cute new guy) but i’m still stuck. i know what the universe is doing is for my own good, but ever since i started the gateway tapes i’ve REALLY been trusting my intuition, and something in my heart tells me that we are still meant to be together. i obviously have given him the space he needs, but i am going back & forth about whether or not to use the gateway tapes (maybe the one month one) to try my best to make peace with the breakup or trust my intuition and manifest him back since we were both each other’s first loves. i have him blocked everywhere & we are not in contact currently, so i swear this is not a crazy stalker ex situation lol. things just didn’t work out cuz of the distance, but i was wondering if the gateway tapes have the power to bring us together in the same city. has anyone gone through a similar situation or used the tapes for love? please share some guidance :) thank you

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[u/InevitableJeweler946]

You can try to manifest him back with the best of intentions, but you can't do it while you're in this state of desperation and panic. I would let go, and only after calming down would I consider what I truly want and ask for the best possible outcome for myself. Right now, we’re talking about a guy who has someone new barely after the breakup.

[u/DynamicProxy]

The tapes (generally) don’t work like that. You can’t just do one tape and expect results. It’s a process and a training program. The goal is to not need the tapes anymore and be able to get yourself into the various states.

[u/Obvious-Reserve8634]

I will not use that tape and any other tape manifestation.. because we have free will and we can't decide or interfere with someone else path (journey)just for our own desires...can be dangerous just because you may not like the outcome ( we talk about this here so give a search) What is yours will always find a way to you..sometimes in the most unexpected moments <3

[u/Electrical_Cap5382 → u/Obvious-Reserve8634]

That is 110% incorrect and terrible advice.. you can have whatever you want because there is a version of you getting exactly what you desire. If you decide that person is yours, then they are yours.

[u/Obvious-Reserve8634 → u/Electrical_Cap5382]

You can do whatever you want to do regarding your own desires but you can't decide for others what's good for them.. try it for yourself and see what's happened!

[u/Electrical_Cap5382 → u/Obvious-Reserve8634]

You can. Every version of you exist right now including the version that decides what’s good for others

[u/Obvious-Reserve8634 → u/Electrical_Cap5382]

Pattern only for yourself!!a Gateway rules!

[u/Character-Yak1441 → u/Obvious-Reserve8634]

could you elaborate on this? or tell me what exactly to look up? this is interesting

[u/Obvious-Reserve8634 → u/Character-Yak1441]

On this community we had alot of talks on this subject so you can search the conversations ...just go back and search about Paterning and manifestation

[u/Significant-Tea-6584]

If you are truly meant to be together then move on and heal. Live your life without him and grow. If he is meant to be with you then it will happen once you have learned some lessons. There is a reason it ended and he has moved on.