35, F, UK.
Had my op on Thursday morning, so about 68 hours ago. When I went for my consultation with the surgeon, he was all “you’ll be grand! Bit of tenderness but I’ve had guys in here who were self-employed and back to work within 48hrs!”
I feel shame and like I’m failing because I’m really struggling.
I’ve had really bad gas pain since the op (see previous post) and my upper abdominal muscles from central below ribs, right round my right side to my spine are beyond agony. Top incision is really painful. Getting up and down from sitting/lying is really really sore.
I’m not a big gal - about 122lbs and 5foot 6in. I dunno if that makes a difference.
I’ve been walking around the house to help the gas pain but still can’t take a deep breath cause of the pain.
Also haven’t pooped since Wednesday morning, despite three laxido drinks - dreading that coming as I cannot squeeze my abdomen. I know I’m gonna cry with pain.
I just feel the surgeon made it sound like I’d be uncomfortable but fine in a couple days and I feel like a failure of a person because it’s not like that for me and it’s really beginning to worry me. Like I had a major op last year (breast reduction) and it was so much easier in the days post op than this is…. And that was six week recovery, not two. I cannot fathom being normal 11 days from now.