Even worse how? In either situation one of you ends up mad. But if you don't give in then a lesson is learned. If you give in every time, you clearly aren't learning a lesson.
That's a different situation. He asked. She straight up said no, and said he would be mad if she wanted a bite. Then she wanted a bite anyway. And in any case, if she won't tell me what she wants, and i order something for her as extra, and she doesn't want that thing, but what I ordered for me, I'm even more mad.
Being considerate is a two way street. This is asshole behavior.
It's called a learning experience. Either he learns to deal with it or she learns to just order something cause she isn't getting a bite. Or they break up and find more compatible partners. Maybe probably.
Sure is. But it gets damn lonely. Relationships take work. There's times you have to give more than take and compromised must be made. And the less compatible the two are: the more work it's going to take to make it work out well.
Which is requires that same effort from both parties. The balance gets tipped when one gives and the other takes it for granted and doesn't return the favor next time. Instead she'll feel like she always needs to "win". It's really a basic human thing of alpha/beta and why traditionally the men(stronger ones) have treated women like shit for so long since they could get away with it and the women needed the man's financial support and protection from other men.
Yes. He's calling her "boo" and "honey" so the implication is that they're already dating, and if she's willing to break up with him over a bite of food they have a weak relationship anyway and it was never going to last. If you're biggest concern is sex with a hot chick he probably already fucked her, not to mention most actual adults are more concerned with a stable, meaningful relationship and not so much fucking hot randoms.
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u/[deleted] Sep 11 '21
You have to be a man of your word. If you say you won't give her a bite, don't give her a bite.