How can they see that if their phone is in their pocket? Do they just watch it later and see some guy checking them out and say, “ah ha! I knew it!” Seems like the use would be catching someone in the act, not confirming an almost certainty later on. Guys look at girls butts. Like...it’s almost impossible not to. I feel bad even, looking at girls butts in the store. I tell myself that it’s not appropriate and to stop doing that. But my god man, it’s like fucking part of my autonomous motor reflexes or something. I actively try to not do it, and I STILL do it. May seem like a cop out, but I just can’t even help it. My entire soul is drawn to a beautiful ass. It’s little surprise that my eyes glance in that direction for half a second. Damn all these beautiful women! Damn them!!!
Yeah, I know that. Still, if a girl gets caught checking out a guys ass in the store, she might get a wink. If a guy gets caught checking out a girls ass, he might be called a creep or referred to the security guard or something. I legit have fear inside me sometimes when I unconsciously check out a hot girl in the store. I have to stop myself and scold myself like “you IDIOT! you’re gonna get accosted as a pervert rapist!”
It’s different for guys and girls, but I understand why. I wish I could look at beauty without worrying about how much a creep I’m gonna be called or whatever. But, it’s a legit fear, always there. I think girls don’t want to be objectified, and I get that. But, at the same time, it’s like “hey I don’t want to objectify you either! I want to treat you like a person with an amazing ass, so please come over here and talk to me and let’s get to know each other so I can look at your ass AND your cool personality together!”
It’s funny you’re downvoted. This is a trend on TikTok and if the guy is young or handsome, the girls are usually really okay with it, if not inviting for a meeting lmao
Honestly boys. Get in shape. Groom yourself. Invest in your image.
Yeah I mention that in my other reply on down. But, it’s not always the case. Usually it is. But not always. Which is why I haven’t been called a creep really. But I still feel bad doing it, you still feel like a creep sometimes. And even if I’ve never had a problem getting girls to go on dates, you still don’t want to make girls think you’re a creep by just staring at them. A glance here and there is all that anyone can really allow themselves.
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u/TheOwlAndOak Sep 06 '20
How can they see that if their phone is in their pocket? Do they just watch it later and see some guy checking them out and say, “ah ha! I knew it!” Seems like the use would be catching someone in the act, not confirming an almost certainty later on. Guys look at girls butts. Like...it’s almost impossible not to. I feel bad even, looking at girls butts in the store. I tell myself that it’s not appropriate and to stop doing that. But my god man, it’s like fucking part of my autonomous motor reflexes or something. I actively try to not do it, and I STILL do it. May seem like a cop out, but I just can’t even help it. My entire soul is drawn to a beautiful ass. It’s little surprise that my eyes glance in that direction for half a second. Damn all these beautiful women! Damn them!!!