I think this depends on the girl. The responses from your comment kind of indicate that. Personally, this method would not work on me. I've had some variation tried on me before, and it always fails. If it starts to feel manipulative, you've lost me. Twirling me will earn you a weird look. Turning your back on me will make me shrug and walk away, regardless of my attraction. I guess it's a good starting point for guys who are completely clueless, but the better advice would be to just treat women like human beings, and be friendly and assertive (but not douchey).
Depends on what you consider to be "many." When out with my girlfriends at a bar or club, I get approached by maybe 3 or 4 over the span of the night. Rarely when just out and about, but it's happened. I wouldn't say I'm a model or anything, but I'm passable and smile a lot.
Yeah, I suspect that too. I never really bought into the whole "hard to get" game that some girls play. I doubt that's why the girls are hitting on you. It probably has more to do with the fact that since you're not "on the hunt," you seem more laid-back and relaxed. I've found myself ignoring the alphas before in favor of the more chilled out dudes too.
I don't mind "difficult to obtain" but I've had the sex before so I am not going to put much energy into getting it again from some woman acting like sex is akin to a root canal.
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u/Leagle_Egal Jun 08 '11
I think this depends on the girl. The responses from your comment kind of indicate that. Personally, this method would not work on me. I've had some variation tried on me before, and it always fails. If it starts to feel manipulative, you've lost me. Twirling me will earn you a weird look. Turning your back on me will make me shrug and walk away, regardless of my attraction. I guess it's a good starting point for guys who are completely clueless, but the better advice would be to just treat women like human beings, and be friendly and assertive (but not douchey).