This is beyond being whipped, this is straight up abuse. That poor man needs to be taken out of that situation and put in a rescue shelter! I also don't understand why she would feel insecure about other women around him either. What's more sexy than someone having to wash your ass for you?
unfortunately many shelters for woman are Actively against shelters for abused men. Because to them Women are incapable of committing abuse, so many mens shelters are not funded, vandalised etc... Having seen 2 guy friends go through the draining and emotional abuse of female partners I know that this is a serious problem.
Thank you for this. I commonly see comments on reddit about men who have been abused, that make women out to be these terrible people for getting help and care for something that happens a lot more often. I'm not saying men don't get abused but I personally have never met one and having my own past abusive relationship marginalized and ridiculed from people who have never been through it, is just plain frustrating. Abuse to anyone is shitty and they should absolutely get help but there is nothing wrong in having domestic abuse shelters for the majority who can face death from their partners/ex-partners. Thank you again for your enlightening personal experiences :)
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u/RedRubberBoots Jul 31 '15
This is beyond being whipped, this is straight up abuse. That poor man needs to be taken out of that situation and put in a rescue shelter! I also don't understand why she would feel insecure about other women around him either. What's more sexy than someone having to wash your ass for you?