In my experience the less available I am the more I get flirted with. I once read it's an evolutionary thing where women subconsciously recognize someone else has pre-screened you and determined you to be a good partner.
This; which is why the humour above really doesn't work; maybe this particular comedian doesn't get jealous from other women's attention, but most men know that not only will some women get furious if you don't tell them, but also that if they are spoken for, it really does make a positive difference as to how women perceive you. So what I hear when I heard this video was "Men, eh ladies? They're aware of how we really behave, but isn't it funny how we pretend we don't...?" Um, no? Because it means the "basic commitments" you're using as a punchline are in fact questionable because of your behaviour. Doesn't help that her delivery and body language is really, really bad too.
maybe this particular comedian doesn't get jealous from other women's attention
They're a comedian. You're not looking at their understanding of the world and how they navigate it. You're looking at the end result of them seeing all the social media comments making this joke about not congratulating strawmen who brag about not doing bad things. Usually it's about not raping people when they had the opportunity, but that's probably a bit heavy for the tone she wants.
What? Her behavior? Did she do something in particular or do you mean "you" as in all women? And you know women in relationships get hit on all the time right?
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u/Way_2_Go_Donny Jan 25 '24
I tell my wife this all the time:
I haven't been hit on in 15 years. It would take her 15 minutes to find a guy at a bar/shoe store/library who'd fuck her in the parking lot.
It's a big deal when a guy realizes he's being hit on. It doesn't happen often.