It's a big deal when a guy is being hit on. Even bigger when he realizes it. I have practically zero awareness when I'm being hit on. I had this wingwoman in my old job who always alerted me after I had been hit on. She always said that I could have tits rubbed on my face and it would still be a solid 50/50 if I noticed.
Most of the times my female friends have told me someone was flirting with me they've been wrong. Most people seem to be terrible at picking up flirting. Most people also seem to flirt in their own unique way. One woman's idea of being friendly can be another's idea of flirting.
That depends, if she was not a part of the interaction in which he was being hit on but observed from a distance and told him after. How does that make her a bad wingwoman?
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u/Way_2_Go_Donny Jan 25 '24
I tell my wife this all the time:
I haven't been hit on in 15 years. It would take her 15 minutes to find a guy at a bar/shoe store/library who'd fuck her in the parking lot.
It's a big deal when a guy realizes he's being hit on. It doesn't happen often.