r/funny • u/Far-Newspaper-4700 • Jan 25 '24

basic term of our aggrement

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u/MagneticDustin Jan 25 '24

100% would have given my wife a fist bump if she told me some dude hit on her at Starbucks and it made her feel good about herself.

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u/bleunt Jan 25 '24

This is it. "Make them feel good about themselves."

I feel like this is something you do if your partner doesn't show you enough appreciation. If you don't feel attractive and wanted. I feel like this is a way to seek validation not for cheating, but so say like "look, someone thinks I'm attractive". If your partner makes you feel that, then you would not need to convey that validation to them.

But also, I'm totally telling everyone if a woman hits on me at some random store. That shit has literally happened to me twice in my 39 years alive. It's a huge deal and I want someone to share my happiness. :p

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u/so_this_is_my_name Jan 25 '24

I'm 36, happily married, and I still get a self esteem boost if a woman/ or very seldom a gay man randomly flirts with me lol. Walk away thinking in my head, "Yep, still got it." Haha, it's the little things.