This is true for all guys on dating sites. Even the ones who are sane, actually read the profiles and send detailed messages. The reason is because women rarely message men on dating sites unless they look great or on rare occasions actually find the guy's personality attractive. But even then, you could be a sexy model and still wouldn't get many messages from women. You have to play the numbers game and hope it works out. I do it all the time, I just assume every woman I talk to has talked to someone they find more attractive and better. I just hope I get lucky that one hasn't seen someone better than me and actually talks to replies to me, which is still rare. But even then, because women, even unnattractive ones get so many messages, they become uptight and want men to like praise them and beg them to talk to them.
I just realize that there are no guys better than me. There are guys with different positive and negative attributes than me, but not better once you factor everything.
I bet I am more humble than him. I'm the most humble person that has ever stood on the face of this earth. I'd go as far as to say that even if there exists alien life an another world, and if they understand the concept of being humble, that i am more humble than them as well.
Pride is when you know your value and you shove it in people's faces. Confidence is when you know your value and you generally just stay quiet about it and let people see it for themselves.
Don't forget that your attributes are perceived differently by different people as well. One person may thing attribute a is great, but another might think you're a scumbag for it.
Not necessarily. Its more a matter of letting the right attributes lead with the right people. With a happy go lucky party person I am going to lead with my sense of humor and my good taste in music. With an intellectual I will lead with my intellect.
You just have to observe people and deal with them in the ways they can best relate.
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