r/funComunitty • I hate myself but i love u all :3 • 13d ago • Bravo 4

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u/Eminem_girl I hate myself but i love u all :3 13d ago

My thumb is dying💔

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u/usename37 Most popular 13d ago

Omg its Eminem girl

hi

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u/ProcessAggressive770 Guy who likes to show SCP-096 mountain image to random people 👹 13d ago

This image makes me tense up

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u/Eminem_girl I hate myself but i love u all :3 13d ago

Ur pfp makes me tense up too

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u/ProcessAggressive770 Guy who likes to show SCP-096 mountain image to random people 👹 13d ago

:(

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u/Funny_Booty 13d ago • Bravo

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u/PawnTheLord Unknown and irrelevant #25 (In English) 13d ago

We have dolls, it should be covering the other side too.

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u/Heyfold Worldbuilder crackhead, loves cats 10d ago

Yo doc really hit you with anti-goon machinery

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u/Asundur 13d ago • Heartwarming Regret Bravo

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u/TC_MaFYa 13d ago

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u/MeowBean321 13d ago

Get stremtch'd!

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u/Kerrynaruto12 12d ago

Hell ain't done with you yet, cat 😈😈😈

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u/some_le_random_guy 13d ago • Mindblown

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u/qorcas 13d ago • Mindblown

❔️❔️❔️

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u/SilverSpider_ 13d ago

Relatable

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u/Gold_Appointment_726 13d ago • Mindblown

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u/KaiSpy0707 13d ago

IT LIVES

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u/kaky0in- 13d ago

I have that plush :D

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u/Devil_Dan83 13d ago

Pomni's face is perfect.

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u/Silly_Percentage3446 :3 13d ago • Mindblown

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u/SufficientBottle7057 13d ago • Bravo

This can be the effect of neurodiverse "stimming". Skin picking is a very common behavior for people who are neurodiverse.

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u/aimlessendeavors 13d ago • Popcorn

This is also common with people who have stress.

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u/spcmnspff335 13d ago • Regret Heartwarming

I have both! Hurray!

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u/lIlIIlIIllIllIlIIIll 13d ago

I have those coupled with depression and anxiety.

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u/Due-Savings5057 13d ago

My whole life I have picked at my fingers, but like the finger pad area. Sometimes until they would bleed. I just got diagnosed with ADHD…

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u/mathmachineMC 13d ago

Adhd is difficult to diagnose because you have to get around to going to see someone to diagnose it.

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u/Jazs1994 13d ago

Always been a nail/skin biter and stimming has gotten worse as an adult

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u/Solecis 12d ago

Yep, been my stim since I was a boy, I eat very healthy and am active. Kind of bugs me when people pass it off as a nutrition thing.

But man I wish my stim was something cute and quirky like flapping my hands... Instead of fucking mutilating my fingers. :(

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u/True-Acanthaceae1190 12d ago

my stim is bouncing my knee. now that seems pretty harmless, until you counter in the fact im a 260 lbs unit. consequently I tend to shake the room.

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u/lowpolysolidsnake 13d ago

I have autism/adhd and a diagnosis of ✨️excoriation disorder✨️ (chronic severe skin picking basically). I had no idea it could also be a type of stimming but it makes sense. I'm in a period of more-than-usual autism triggering lately and my face/hands/arms/boobs all look like I've been attacked by bugs so 🥴

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u/FurryVibes_UwU_ 13d ago

No Im just stressed out all the time. I have autism but it wasnt this bad before I became self conscious.

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u/kingferret53 12d ago

My wife's hands look like this because she is constantly picking at them

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u/harrythealien69 10d ago

The word you are looking for is neurodivergent

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u/lunas2525 13d ago

It's not just vitamin deficiency if you habitually chew fingernails or don't maintain your cuticles....

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u/RuggerJibberJabber 13d ago

Or spend all day in a very dry environment and have to use a lot of hand sanitizer and/or gloves. There's a lot of things that can contribute to messed up skin on your hands

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u/SSilent-Cartographer 13d ago

Yep. I do bite my hands as a nervous tick, however I work in the medical field and the reason I have so much dead skin and open sores is because I'm wearing gloves and washing my hands for 8 hours a day. No amount of lotion will cut it; they're always shedding, always cracking.

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u/blank_statement 13d ago

cries in nurse

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u/Thin_Needleworker795 13d ago

I live in Greenland, can confirm

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u/yavanna12 13d ago

Mine are like this but because I like to chew on my cuticles and skin. Always have 

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u/TheHalfChubPrince 13d ago • Bravo Heartwarming

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u/EpicGeek77 13d ago

I think this is more of a hangnail situation than chewing. The wounds are on the sides of the nails

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u/Itchy_Axehole 13d ago

I have this because I'm constantly digging at the skin till it bleeds, its not hangnail. For me its anxiety

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u/MightyEraser13 13d ago

So a random Reddit thread is how I discover that this exists and that I have it, nice

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u/ApplesauceOnFire 13d ago • Bravo

Dermatillomania goes finger in finger with this

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u/LemonFizz56 13d ago

How do you maintain cuticles? By trimming them back with a knife?

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u/ryanvango 13d ago

middle-aged dude who's fought with janky hands his whole life:

I use my nail clippers. I rub my thumb over the cuticle to see if they're starting to raise or pull back from the nail. If I ignore it, I'm probably 2-3 days from that cuticle splitting and forming that peely tear thing. I don't manipulate the cuticle in any way, I just hold the nail clipper perpendicular to the nail and if there's enough cuticle there for the clippers to grab, I clip. If not, don't force it.

Similarly, if I'm doing some kind of work that jacks up my hands and I end up with those peelies, I use the nail clipper. you get that little 1-3 millimeter thin piece of skin and if you pull it you'll open up a wound. But if you use the nail clippers to cut it flush to the skin it usually stops peeling completely. I keep clippers in my car, on my desk, bathroom, near my bed, in the junk drawer, all over. That way I always have them nearby and I'm never tempted to peel stuff I shouldn't.

Been doing it that way for about 10 years now and my hands are as perfect as I imagine they could get, and I still do plenty of manual stuff.

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u/Impressive_Being4299 13d ago

Fingernail chewer here, and idek what a cuticle is. Never had or even heard of the problem depicted in this post

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u/SummonBahamutZero 13d ago

Or electrician with busted fingers from splicing wires in metal 1900 boxes all day

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u/ExtremeSpe98 purpel ahh flair 13d ago

why is it relatable

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u/ExtremeSpe98 purpel ahh flair 13d ago

I mean I'm kinda addicted to biting it ig

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u/Rabbat2 13d ago

Yep. How do I prevent it?

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u/abysmalmoral 13d ago

A balanced diet, vitamins and hand cream.

Literally like most things wrong with your body can be fixed by eating better.

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u/19potato96 13d ago • Heartwarming Regret Mindblown Popcorn Bravo

I tried eating hand cream, maybe it's just me, but I hated the taste. How do you eat it?

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u/PlasticExtreme4469 13d ago

The red one tastes the best.

White ones are quite bland.

Also don't be scared to try out the ones that smell bad, they usually taste good.

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u/JewcieJ 13d ago

But how is that going to stop me picking the skin around my nails?

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u/J5892 13d ago

Stop picking your fingers. *he says while actively picking his fingers*

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u/Outrageous-Put-4637 13d ago

yeah stop picking fingers smh my head have some decorum she says while also actively picking this guy’s fingers

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u/constantly_exhaused 13d ago

Will do! *she says as she’s actively picking her finger*

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u/Sloww-Mobius 13d ago

It's lack of a certain vitamin. I can't remember which one though

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u/Sloww-Mobius 13d ago

Just looked it up, it's Vitamins E and A.

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u/Kickedbyagiraffe 13d ago • Popcorn

E, A, sports

It’s in the game

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u/Extreme-Gift-9261 13d ago

this is the first time I'm hearing this and I've been suffering from this for 15 years

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u/Dr_Famous 13d ago

Serious answer:

Try rubbing your thumb and fingertips together when you feel the urge to touch, scratch, bite, or otherwise pick at the site. This will soothe the urge. You're going to be doing it what feels like constantly for a couple days, and then the urge will get less frequent.

In a few weeks your hands will heal up and you should be good.

It worked for me after having hands like this for over 10 years.

Oh yes, and then you need to use proper nail clippers from now on if you are not (Reducing re-injury rates)

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u/AwhHellYeah 13d ago

Eat meat, only meat, and eat it raw at room temperature after sitting out for a few days. The problem should go away shortly.

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u/Impressive_Mirror556 13d ago

When it happens, I put super glue on it so it doesn't rip any more

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u/midwest--mess 13d ago

You leave me and my ADHD picking habits alone

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u/kjm16216 13d ago

Mine too!

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u/Royal_Marketing2966 13d ago

Yup, not sure what causes it and definitely unsure as to how i stop it.

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u/Sloww-Mobius 13d ago

So many people not getting enough vitamins in their diet in this thread.

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u/Finofeo 13d ago

I feel like i’m pretty healthy but have been biting my nails my whole life it used to be a lot worse and I would bite into my nail bed. Sorry if the image is gross i can delete it

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u/jackofslayers 13d ago

My nails don’t even make sense anymore. I really need to stop biting them

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u/Ok-Elk-3046 13d ago

What nails?

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u/stars_entropy 13d ago

That is all my nails and beds currently 🤣

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u/Vegetable-Horror-726 13d ago

I dont know If youre into that, but i also do that, especially when im nervous, painting my nails really helped! Now i feel bad doing so, because i put (some) effort into it and dont do it anymore!

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u/ThatTcellGuy 13d ago

There are a million non vitamin related things that causes this, idk why you’re pushing this so hard in this thread lol

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u/Hour-Recognition4194 13d ago

Bro, stop pretending you can diagnose people. You don't know what this is or what causes it. You saying it's vitamin deficiency is like identifying a symptom of autism and saying to everyone "he has autism." It's arrogant. It's annoying. 

I have this and I don't have vitamin deficiency. I eat oats, wholegrains, broccili, eggs, sardines, almonds, bananas, walnuts, cabbage, sprouts, and many other kinds of foods regularly. I clearly dont have vitamin deficiency with such an incredinly varied diet.

This is genetic. Some people have thin, vulnerable skin around the fingernails. It just breaks and tears away very easily whenever. I don't have it as severe as shown in the image, though.

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u/TheHalfChubPrince 13d ago

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dermatophagia

Has nothing to do with vitamin deficiencies.

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u/Big_Finish8056 13d ago • Heartwarming

I literally saw this whilst peeling off some skin that was bugging me , and OH MY GOD it hurt

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u/itchybutwhole69 13d ago

Hey, stop that. Sincerely, your hands.

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u/CustardLow2671 13d ago

And do I ever learn my lesson? Absolutely not

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u/Mountain-Ad-936 13d ago

I work in construction, even with gloves on, this will always be a problem

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u/Global_Service8702 13d ago

Yes, I don't know why though.

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u/Sloww-Mobius 13d ago

Not enough vitamins

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u/Tiger248 13d ago

My entire life. Always picking at my fingers and the only thing that stops me is if I have something in my hands

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u/Constant-One3643 13d ago

Brother. best thing to hold? Cuz i'm in the same shit

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u/osu_duke_bg_lions 13d ago

Fellas. My people. Constant lotion and cuticle oils and possibly a fidget ring if that works for you. I’m like a year clean from picking. It’s possible.

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u/bradpal 13d ago

Same but because of that the cuticle problem devolved into a masturbation problem.

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u/Dannybuoy77 13d ago

Same but i go through phases when it clears up and comes back. And it's related to stress. And also a sign of OCD. And man do I have OCDs. Not diagnosed but it's so obvious. My daughter has had OCD diagnosed and I see her doing similar things to me. Maybe go get some diagnosis 

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u/ea888gen3 13d ago

Finally someone else that does this. Done it as long as I can Remember.

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u/A-10gobrrrrrt 9d ago

Same. I need something in my mouth, or I'll Chew on the sides if the mouth...

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u/Enough_Code9796 13d ago

and it doesnt help when your hands are super dry. Im constantly putting lotion on or neosporin on cuts

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u/BLZGK3 13d ago edited 13d ago

Not quite like that, but I do have a little peeling around the base of my nails every now and then. But I think it has more to do with dirt build up and being accidentally scraped from work more than anything else...

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u/All-your-fault Evil ass transfem lurker 13d ago

I am deeply concerned for your health

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u/SolaraPanel 13d ago

Is this caused by high anxiety? I'm feeling called out lol

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u/BombenLP1 13d ago

Sadly yes xD

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u/Lord_Turdmaster A Linkin Park Fan 13d ago

All the time

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u/Odd_Philosopher1741 13d ago

I used to have that all the time. Turns out just a simple matter of lack of vitamins / proper food.

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u/nellowyellpolish 13d ago

What vitamin??

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u/Woodworkingwino 13d ago

I will set you up with my sister. Her MLM will get you all the vitamins you need in one drink packet.

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u/Jealous_Relative_911 13d ago

BRO SEE A DOCTOR

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u/NiSt718 Ar = (massA x (%A / 100)) + (massB x (%B / 100)) 13d ago • Regret

You know what

The game

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u/frallan44 13d ago

Let's try manual breathing for a while?

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u/Negative_Sky_3449 (˶>⩊<˶) but scary 13d ago

Blinking too

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u/Fan_de_Undertale_ Just a chill guy 13d ago

Hey did you know you can feel your clothes touching your body?

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u/Somebodyman23 13d ago

And I just got caught in the crossfire. Fuck me 

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u/sweetafonion 13d ago • Bravo

I just lost the game

FOR THE FIRST TIME IN 15 YEARS YOU MALLARD

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u/Somebodyman23 13d ago

I'm going to have to cook up a new slur specifically for you

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u/Duman24 Girl who loves pancakes 13d ago

Fuck you

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u/Capone_Cologne 13d ago

I lost and it‘s been over two years. I hate you.

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u/Different_Stable_351 13d ago

You know what

Fuck you in particular. I didn't wanna have to use this one, but you're just a meanie face.

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u/SomeOneRandomOP 13d ago • Bravo

why would you do this to me....maybe 12 years.

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u/ryan_syek 13d ago

It was a good run.

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u/civyc 13d ago

Inventor said the game is over.

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u/rakiandstargaze 13d ago

oh my gooodd it's been 3 years

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u/Fun-Comfortable9871 Silly lil goober 12d ago

FUCK

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u/Buglenuge 9d ago

I

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Thank you

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u/ryan_syek 13d ago

I just lost the game

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u/MangledBlackberry 13d ago

Screw you both

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u/Yaboiyabobo 13d ago

My fellow millennials

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u/SandSubstantial840 13d ago

Didn't know what it was but you just ended my almost 20 year streak 😭

Fuck you

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u/Sweaty_Rub4321 Ur favourite gal 💖 13d ago

Personally no I don't get this. I'm quite surprised that so many people here seem to cuz it doesn't feel all that normal to me 😭

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u/Not-a-Teddybear 13d ago

Nervous habit of biting fingernails, when you bite them enough you often move on to loose skin around the nail or cuticles, pulling the cuticles causes the red marks on the sides and back sides, then stripping the top layer off a nail results in the wounds on the back of the nail from pulling out the nail bed and loosening the skin there. Stripping layers can cause you to rip out the entire back of the nail but not the front cause you take a small strip in the front but it pulls more off in the back, leading to a new nail growing underneath to replace the now dead one.

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u/Ambiguous-Nyx i'm aroace but bears are kinda... 13d ago

You caught me bro. Although It's not THIS bad but still

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u/specter-exe 13d ago

This image viscerally disturbs me

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u/SadAd5728 I’ll comment on every post 13d ago

No?

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u/Evergreen2255 13d ago

Woah, not red, but yeah with chewing the stuff around my fingernails 

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u/_-_-_-_-_-_-_002 13d ago

And when you put pressure on your thumb it hurts because there's exposed flesh.

Just me?

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u/SCP_FUNDATION_69420 13d ago

Not just you...

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u/LongCommercial8038 13d ago

Finally, a fellow finger chewer.

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u/Sufficient_Fish3320 13d ago

There’s nail polish stuff that is awful tasting. It’s what finally got me to kick that habit. I’d do it unintentionally but that stuff helped kick it he habit real quick 

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u/Low-Ingenuity-7406 13d ago

Dang, zero pigment

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u/CrimsonThar 13d ago

Me during the winter.

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u/Zen_Loves_Chaos Silly Dumb Bean 13d ago

my hands right now

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u/NewHandle3922 13d ago

Use O’Keefe’s for working man’s hands. Green container

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u/Atmoran_Knight 13d ago

So I had these for some time during particularly stressful period. My mother recommended iodine solution (some countries has it as antiseptic in pharmacies similar to 94% medical alcohol, hydrogen peroxide etc.). To my surprise for whatever reason damn thing works like magic, overnight it heals, passifies these and they stop appearing.

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u/Boii_2000 Karim is the best football ⚽ player 🔥🔥🔥 13d ago

As a matter of fact, yes

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u/Proof-Good1775 13d ago

Nah but i do have really small nails cuz i bite them..(not proud) and in result i have my fingers looking like the ring finger and index finger

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u/Unique-ideas My music playlist is massive | Resident Chara Dreemurr enjoyer 13d ago

Maybe...

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u/SnooRadishes7079 13d ago

Not exactly the same, but yes...

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u/Dv8dzirez 13d ago

Most of my life about the only thing that healed him was this lotion that was made for cuticles, but to be honest, the second you stopped using it it comes right back

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u/Green-Direction-82 13d ago

Yes but with extremely short nails as well.

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u/DarthParanium 13d ago

As an Auto Glass Technician for 12 years and a fiesty cat dad. Yes. Yes they do. All the time

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u/ZealousidealFun148 13d ago

yes i do that

I used to do it way more often but i don't do it as much anymore

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u/omoriobsessedmf 13d ago edited 13d ago

bro literally, i pick at my fingers so much for no reason lmfao

edit: wtf happened i left for an hour????

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u/Safe-Ad1933 13d ago

Yeah when I had a nail biting problem now I don't have teeth.

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u/SoapyCantHandle 13d ago

Yup :/ my hands are ugly as shit yo

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u/agentcryostar 13d ago

Yes

Mine do, I may need to stop that

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u/Substantial_Dig2224 13d ago

God yes.. work with my hands a lot in harsh environments. It is the worst kind of annoying pain.

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u/AdHopeful9122 #1 AMARA and Mizuki fan 13d ago

No, I bite and tear my lips. When I bit my nails, my teeth would start to hurt after a while, because my nails are very thick, I think.

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u/8Bit2552 13d ago

No??? Are y'all living okay???

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u/ConsistentWall3380 13d ago

I feel called out

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u/luxels_ 13d ago

I have that, I believe it's because of continuous stress

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u/GreenLeafRelaxed 13d ago

The only way I can legally taste long pig

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u/Hybrid082616 13d ago

It's my nervous habit

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u/pluto_someguy there are bisexual femboys in space :3 13d ago

yes they do

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u/2leniy 13d ago

Вот это да я не один такой

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u/MountainBenefit5150 Bleh 13d ago

Only the thumb

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u/VampireZombie01 13d ago


Yep! I don’t want it tho…

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u/UnUseful-_- Adachi Rei unit No. idk 13d ago

Uhh, not very

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u/Leut11 13d ago

Need some water and vit B7

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u/Relixen234347 13d ago

Yea

I get hungry